"Let's try this" is a gateway to bigger things. Whether it's about taking a risk in business, getting into a relationship, or taking a puff in a cigarette. You may face failure in your business, but there is a lesson for the next time to try in a better way. Maybe your relationship is full of hardships, but you may soon realize how to manage that. Or your one puff in the cigar has chained you to the upper level in that dark side.
In my free time, I did tuition; yeah, I did that too. It was like a whole new experience; I was enjoying that; it was a fun ride for me. Trust me, the day when I got my payment, I was overwhelmed, and instantly, a thought crossed my head. On seeing that notes, it leveled up from that fun ride to a responsibility; a fear gripped me of serving them as much as they needed to because I was getting paid for the best service I should provide. It started through a fun ride to try and gather a new experience and ended up being a responsibility to be serious about fulfilling properly.
Maybe a relationship mostly starts with an exciting feeling to love and to be loved. Startings don't create much seriousness to ensure the path of being together forever. We just get floated in the waves of love and romance and create memories, and later comes the realization to make it forever. Promises are not the path; the path is the actions that we do to ensure a permanent name for the relationship that will last forever. Gradually, whether we part ways or choose to stay with one another forever, one of the decisions gets fixed. What does it take? Being mature, developing proper seriousness, and working on the way to make it happen. So, from the exciting kickstart, a path of seriousness to make things reach a destination is the ultimate way to everything.
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It's like our life cycle, from infancy, childhood, teenage, adulthood, to old age, and things keep going like that. Initially, things are completely different, and with time it keeps changing. Everything has the same basic structures to be followed with different colors and rulesets.
Instead of getting frustrated by these transitions, we gotta be more constant and sensible in embracing them with a smile and make them work out properly as they should have. What about me? Ummmmm, multiple things to consider every day from the moment I open my eyes in the morning until I close them for the next day to repeat. There was a time when before closing my eyes, I didn't have any thoughts for the next day to be worried or worthy of consideration. The day used to be passed away like an individual page, without much worry about what happened or is going to happen. Now, no more fun rides, all of them are now transformed into the rides of seriousness, ones that I can't ignore nor get passed away, so I chose to play with them as they should be played, facing them with full spirits.