I remember when my relationship with one of the friend was after the college. And we thought it would go long but the roads were different and also we had to move places. I was kind of perceptive I always held back on that part. I thought unless roads meet we would never really connect.
Like you were feeling you connected for the sake of it and there is only one driver. So that turned out bitter first relationship.
However this second relationship I had kicked differently lead to the marriage. Because here the roads were out of question. Connection came first. So this relationship I never had the problem. The problem was the in laws and the family which this relationship got me into.
So the sister inlaw in this family was one of the difficult relation. And the way this relation turned out made my life slow to worst. And that made me worry a lot. Many of my nights and weekends were bitter because of it. And it made my life a bit of hell.
Sister in law was one of my second worst relationship.