One Essential Thing Every Woman Should Know
As a woman, there is one fundamental principle to keep in mind:
"Don't ever initiate a relationship; instead, initiate a conversation." If he is interested, he will take it from there.
This concept is beautifully depicted in the book "The Trolley" by David Kunle Agunbiade . The story of Tolu and Kasia's unexpected encounter at a bus stop, which sparked a connection leading to an unforeseen and eventful relationship, illustrates this principle.
Their story unfolded as follows: they had been crossing paths at a particular park for a week or two, potentially developing feelings for each other. It's highly likely that one of them, if not both, had feelings. However, neither of them expressed their emotions.
You might be thinking that it's normal to approach a guy and express your feelings for him. But walking up to a guy and confessing your feelings doesn't demonstrate strength or independence; instead, it can leave you vulnerable to heartbreak, striking like an unexpected ambush, leaving you defenseless against pain, sadness, and loneliness.
So, how can a woman initiate a conversation? It's simple. Let's delve into the story further.
"Both Kasia and Bolu stood meters apart at a quiet bus stop, each lost in their own thoughts. Suddenly, like the gentle rumblings of an approaching thunderstorm, Kasia heard distinct sounds – the rumbling of a stomach, causing her to glance at Bolu.
She burst out laughing, unconcerned with his potential reaction. He frowned, clearly embarrassed.
‘That was rude of me, laughing like that. I’m sorry,’ she said.
He grinned. ‘Don’t be. I should apologize.''
Their shared laughter over a rumbling stomach forged a bond that led to a genuine relationship.
In essence, as a woman, you don't need to seduce a man by revealing what's hidden, asking him out, buying him lunch, or stalking him. Simply initiating a conversation works its magic.
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