I met Charles when I got to Mokwa hospital complex, he was also a nursing student who was almost graduating, while as of then I was undergoing my two hundred level ik internship.
The first day we met, he was calm and actually a handsome guy, we talked and exchanged pleasantries. Before you know it we where getting closer.
Little by little, we actually became close. My last relationship was in two thousand and twenty. I thought Charles was going to be different, not up to a month we knew each other he asked me out. After much shakara as a lady I gave in, I actually did liked him and I couldn't hide it, for too long maybe or actually that was my most worst or unwanted mistake.
Charles and I became an item, and before you knew it, almost everyone in the facility and even at home knew I was in a relationship with him. I was not someone who his my relationship from family, so I opened up to them about us.
Actually, my family kicked against it that he was an Eggon guy and Eggon men do not take good care of their wife's. I did fought those statement, that mine was gonna be different until I found out I was even building my life with a narcissist, it started on a very sunny day, we where having a conversation, and I asked him a question about his family and he was like I am an alpha male, you don't get to ask such questions around here. and am like what the hell?
Next he openly told me, my result would be used in his farm, and that his people would never approve of him to marry an igbo girl. at that point I started thinking about my life, yeah 😊 I did. I had to ooo. it meant was not safe with him. I want a family , a home and I definitely would take care of my family, but being a full time house wife, never, talk more of using my result in a mans farm.
This me that has never been to a farm before became scared like, am not save. I was kind of making research on how to help him maybe it was a trauma from something that brought put all thus personality I was seeing but eh, he started blackmailing me emotionally, using my affections for him to hurt me,Hi stopped having a mind of my own at a point, He openly told me that since I wasn't ready to have sex with him at his beck and call he was going to be getting it from other woman until I was ready.
And visible, he had other women in his life, we where too much that he hardly saved anyone's number. The day I discovered he was also dating my Junior interns too, from same hospital that we all where working. Apart from the ones he goes as far as akwanga to visit. I knew my parents where right.
On the 5th of September, I gently prepared and left Nasarawa state, I didn't give him a chance to feel I was leaving his life or running go my dear life no. I just told him I would visit him in school if I have the chance to. Since I left, he has tried many approach to me to come see him but am done, I had to delete his number, block him on all social media platforms and tried to heal from every trauma he had instinct on me. This was how I walked out of my second most worst relationship.
