I began to think after my wife departed for office this morning with my baby going to the creche with her
But what keeps me thinking is this
As we were both moving towards the junction with the baby in front of my wife being carried with the carrier,alot of people keep looking at my wife, at first I never noticed it but she called my attention to it, then I keep observeing till I get to know why they were looking at my wife,at a point I overheard someone saying why will a woman carry a baby with a carrier,some of them shook their head and say alot of shit,like it is forbidden to carry a baby with the carrier
This keep me thinking over and over again,but they were all wrong and they failed to acknowledge the fact that the baby is not feeling fine and she needed some fresh air because of the boil all over her back and neck and if we decide to back her with wrappers the boil might bust and this may lead to pain for the baby and this was the reason we choose to use the baby carrier ,but none of them came closer to approach or ask what was the reason behind what they saw
Many times have come to think of it that people have been mislead by our culture and it has affected our way of leaving in one way or the other just imagine what happened and what people were thinking without knowing the root of the matter
I have come to think of so many archaic believe and culture that has been affecting alot of people, we have left the stone age and in the age of civilization where things has been simplified and made life easy for every one, misconception has brought hatred to so many individuals people fail to vet information before jumping into conclusion and this has lead to list of life and stigmatization for example
A man always coming late to the house and the naibours thought he was a thief not knowing he works at the club house or in a bar,this is misconception and stigmatization please let's always find out information before we stigmatized someone or say what he or she has not done the situation this morning has taught me alot of lessons and that is why I have decided to share with you all
Thanks for reading