Why do other women look more beautiful than their wives? A man came to a wise scholar and said in a voice of guilt feeling, "Sir! When I first saw my wife before I got married, I thought that God had not created anyone else on earth like my wife. When I sent the marriage proposal to my wife and she accepted the proposal, all the arrangements for the marriage were completed, then I saw that there are many beautiful women in the world like my wife. And when I married my wife and took her home, I saw that many women are more beautiful than my wife. When a few years passed after marriage, I thought, every woman is much more beautiful than my wife."
The scholar replied, "Shall I tell you something worse than this?" The man replied yes please! The scholar began to say, if you marry all the women of the world, then the nerd dogs of the path will seem more beautiful to you than all the women of the world. The man eagerly wanted to know, but sir, why would you think so? Where is the problem?
The scholar explained, "Listen, the problem is not with your wife." The problem is that when a person's heart is ruined and his eyes are filled with lust, when the fear of God, even the shame is gone, his eyes are filled with nothing but the soil of the grave.
And your problem is, you don't stop looking at prohibited things and dirty things. Fear Allah! You will see that the problem has been solved.
May Allah grant us the grace to follow the rules.