Do yourself a favor, do not compare your relationship or your partner with another, look around you, we all have our individual differences, just as we have different faces, so are our opinions, ideas, thoughts and wisdom, let's not mount pressure on our partners in a relationship because of what we saw others doing which our fellow partners don't do to us.
For the fact that Mr. A is busy posting his girlfriend or wife on his social media handler, we shouldn't expect same treatment from our partners. Yes, we should know and take note that, some or rather most relationships are louder in public than in secret. Crave for genuine love more than you would crave for a loud relationship/marriage.
Every relationship/marriage has what works for it, so cut the nonsense and crave for an expensive love more than you would crave for an expensive public relationship/marriage.
Know it that your partner isn't perfect, yes they've got flaws, they make mistakes.
It is very important that you take note of this too; "God will never give you the complete package you are looking for in a partner".
Some people are still single because they are looking for a very beautiful/cute, romantic, curvy lady/broad chest guy with good character, sweet accent, wealthy, beard gang and very Godly partners. Come on fellas, you're busy looking for qualities in people that even you yourself don't have a pass mark in those attributes, who do you expect to manage your physique self?
Rather than tell your partner what to do, table it out as a suggestion to him, that way, he will feel your submission as a woman, normally we all know that what men want in a relationship is more of respect than love, while women wants to be loved.
Note that; You'll not always have the feeling to love, so even when you don't feel like it, just love. Sometimes, you get attracted to a lady/guy, who treats you better than your partner but you already know your partner's capacity, what they can afford and that they are trying their best. So, you would just have to be committed to them, don't think of leaving your present partner because some guy/lady treats you a little better than your partner, it is said that; "The Devil you know is far better than the Angel you don't know".
A wrong partner will find it hard loving you no matter how hard you try to make them love you. Make sure you are with the right person.
And for my fellow brothers that are still praying for a better life partner. Please, be sensitive enough to know when it's right to make moves on a lady, prayers and fasting alone without works won't bring her for you to marry, you must learn to open up to her your deepest feeling at the appropriate time.
Thank you all for your time and love.
© Victor Job