Često ih nismo svesni ali ih možemo osećati npr kao neku vrstu zahlavljenosti ili možda čak kao
teret. Može biti i neki od ponavljajućih obrazaca ponašanja ili reagovanja na neku od uticaja. Obično su došli "od spolja" od nekoga ili ste možda podložniji spoljnjim svakodnevnim uticajima kojih danas ima na pretek.
Možete imati onaj nelagodni osećaj u stomaku pre ili nakon nekog telefonskog razgovora, koji npr morate obaviti a to vam se uopšte ne radi.
Often we are not aware of them, but we can feel them, for example, as a kind of stubbornness or maybe even as a burden. It can also be some of the repetitive patterns of behavior or response to some of the influences. They usually came "from the outside" from someone, or maybe you are more susceptible to the external daily influences that abound today.
You may have that uneasy feeling in your stomach before or after a telephone conversation, which you have to do, for example, and you don't feel like doing it at all.
Nekada vas uticaj može iznenaditi, udariti kao grom iz vedra neba, npr. kada u jednom trenutku shvatite da reagujete identično kao neko vama blizak, po difoltu, ali istog momenta znate (npr roditelji, bliza rodbina) da način nije ispravan.
Promatranjem i osvešćivanjem možete uvideti i da ste vi uticali na vaše dete i da ono ima reakcije poput vaših.
Bilo koji da su oni su svakako nepovoljni!
Nastavak sledi...
Sometimes the influence can surprise you, strike you like a bolt from the blue, for example when at one moment you realize that you are reacting identically to someone close to you, by default, but at the same moment you know (eg parents, close relatives) that the way is not correct.
By observing and becoming aware, you can see that you have influenced your child and that he has reactions similar to yours.
Whatever they are, they are certainly unfavorable!
To be continued ...
Pozdrav od mene i ostanite zdravi i srećni.
Greetings from me and stay healthy and happy.