Da li je normalno ceo źivot živeti u strahu? Da li je moguće da se toliko plašimo tudjeg mišljenja toliko mnogo? Da li je moguće da smo više kukavice nego hrabri?
Ovo su pitanja koja me sve više fasciniraju. . .
Mogu da razumem dete kad nešto ne zna, plaši se mraka itd. Ali kada se odrasli plaše istog nakon toliko godina istih stvari onda mu treba ozbiljna terapija. Znate, mene od malena privlače duhovne teme samo što tada nisam znala šta je to, sada znam da je to rad na sebi. Duhovni razvoj jedne ličnosti. Zapravo, duhovni ili spiritualni razvoj bi trebalo da bude normalna pojava u ljudskom životu. Zašto ta tema nekoga dotakne a nekoga nikada. Zavisi od suptilnosti duše.
Ove misli su me još više obuzele dok sam posmatrala golubove u letu, oslobodjene ljudske gluposti i ovozemaljskih strahova. Lete, jednostavno lete. . .
Is it normal to live your whole life in fear? Is it possible that we are so afraid of other people's opinions so much? Is it possible that we are more cowards than brave?
These are questions that fascinate me more and more. . .
I can understand a child when he doesn't know something, is afraid of the dark, etc. But when adults are afraid of the same thing after so many years of the same thing then he needs some serious therapy. You know, I've been attracted to spiritual topics since I was little, but I didn't know what it was then, now I know that it's self-improvement. Spiritual development of a person. In fact, spiritual or spiritual development should be a normal phenomenon in human life. Why does this topic touch someone and never someone else?
These thoughts overwhelmed me even more as I watched the pigeons in flight, freed from human stupidity and worldly fears. They fly, they just fly. . .
Da li medju vama ima onih koji su barem probali da budu ono što jesu?
I ? Stvarno ne razumem odakle toliki strah? A da li ste primetili da mnogi govore kako baš vole osobe koji su ono što jesu. Kada jedan bloger ili jutjuber govori bez ikakvog tabua o nekoj temi, dobije mnogo više lajkova i pregleda nego neko ko je izveštačen! Pa eto! Na svakom koraku možete videti koliko se takvi ljudi više cene, zašto ste onda još uvek u grču?? To vam je kao kada učite da plivate. Zapušiš nos i skočiš u vodu! Instiktivno čovek počne da mlatara rukama i nogama od straha. OD STRAHA! Zbog straha i potonu, ne zbog toga što ne znaju da plivaju. Jer kad ne znaš da plivaš- telo pluta, ne potone. Ali da bi plutao moraš da se opustiš. Da li smo mi opušteni? Nismo. Bežeći od slobode da budemo ono što nam je od prirode dato, mi mlataramo glupostima i lažima i tako tonemo.
Are there those among you who have at least tried to be who they are?
And ? I really don't understand where such fear comes from? And have you noticed that many people say that they love people who are who they are. When a blogger or YouTuber speaks without any taboo about a topic, he gets many more likes and views than someone who is artificial! Well there it is! At every step you can see how much more such people are valued, then why are you still in a spasm?? It's like learning to swim. You plug your nose and jump into the water! Instinctively, the man starts flailing his arms and legs out of fear. FROM FEAR! They drown because of fear, not because they don't know how to swim. Because when you don't know how to swim, your body floats, it doesn't sink. But to float you have to relax. Are we relaxed? We are not. Running away from the freedom to be what nature has given us, we thrash around with nonsense and lies and thus sink.
U źivotu su najveće pobede samog sebe. Pobeda sopstvenih strahova. Ne postoji veći osećaj zadovoljstva od toga. Tamo gde je vaš strah u tom pravcu treba da idete. Vi radite kontra. Taj strah će vas stići kad tad. Ako imate loš odnos sa nekim, vi ga se otarasite, odselite se ali opet ćete upoznati osobu sa istim karakternim osobinama jer vas život uvek vraća na isti zadatak. Morate se suočiti. Problem nemojte gurati pod tepih, jer ćete se saplesti o prepreku.
In life, the greatest victories are oneself. Conquering your own fears. There is no greater feeling of satisfaction than that. Where your fear is, that's the direction you should go. You do the opposite. That fear will catch up with you at some point. If you have a bad relationship with someone, you get rid of him, move away, but you will meet a person with the same character traits again because life always brings you back to the same task. You have to face it. Don't push the problem under the carpet, because you will trip over the obstacle.
Kada imate potrebu da reagujete iskreno a plašite se, zapitajte sebe- šta mi se najgore može desiti?
Najgore što vam se može desiti je da vam taj neko okrene ledja. Pa?
Ostali ste živi, zar ne? To je zapravo odličan filter za prijatelje. Iskreni prijatelj koji vas bezuslovno prihvata, ostaće uz vas. Videćete koliko veliki olakšanje ćete osetiti. Jedanput, dvaput, triputa, četvrti put ćete uźivati u tome. To vam je kao životno eksperimentisanje! Toliko prilika da istražujete komunikaciju, rastete, menjate, a vi se držite šeme kao da ćete umreti bez nje, baš je zapravo obrnuto. Upravo od šeme i rutine se umire.
Kad smo kod umiranja, Bukovski je rekao:
When you need to react honestly and you are afraid, ask yourself - what is the worst that can happen to me?
The worst thing that can happen to you is that someone turns their back on you. Well?
You stayed alive, didn't you? It's actually a great filter for friends. A true friend who accepts you unconditionally will stay with you. You will see how much relief you will feel. Once, twice, thrice, fourth time you will enjoy it. It's like a life experiment for you! So many opportunities to explore communication, grow, change, and you stick to a pattern like you'll die without it, it's actually the other way around. It is precisely from the scheme and routine that one dies.
Speaking of dying, Bukowski said:
“ Nije smrt ono što je užasno, već životi koje ljudi žive ili ne žive do svoje smrti. Oni ne poštuju svoje živote, oni pišaju po njima… Ružno izgledaju, ružno govore, ružno hodaju. Pusti im veliku muziku i oni je neće čuti. Većina ljudskih smrti je obična prevara. Ništa tu nije ostalo da umre”.
“ It is not death that is terrible, but the lives that people live or do not live until they die. They don't respect their lives, they piss on them... They look ugly, talk ugly, walk ugly. Play them big music and they won't hear it. Most human deaths are simple hoaxes. Nothing was left to die."
Život vam je dao prozore oči, usta, uši, pa zašto onda živite u zatvoru?
Letite, samo letite. . .
Life gave you windows, eyes, mouth, ears, so why do you live in prison?
Fly, just fly. . .
Pozdrav od Anke vragolanke.
Greetings from Anka vregolana!