While I can agree with some of this, it's all relative around how you approach life. If someone doesn't love you back, your effort is wasted depending on if what you want is their love. If a game is unfair, you'd be a fool to join knowing it's rigged against you at every turn. Figure out who is creating the rules, then find out how they came to be. This is a Matrix; the more you bend over and give away chunks of your soul, the more you become something you're not, and when you die you end up recycled in the well of souls instead of becoming enlightened. Don't fall for the soul trap.