Please ooo, let settle this, if a girl is a not yet married, does it mean, she's not beautiful, and someone else is not going to married her?, I am asking this question for my sister's friend, who do gossip quanta with her neighbor and she yap her that.
Although I still have many questions to ask, I want to go first with this one, since it concern my sister's friend and indirectly, it concerns my sister and me as well, as my sister's brother.
I am inside my apartment now, and the kinds of things that is coming out from the mouth of the beautiful lady's, girls and women's in the neighborhood is putting me in a sensing mood, my ear now is very close to the window, that's where the information gets in from, I keep my ear right there, so that I hear everything and have sense.
One of them said something in the area of having a child, and I was like, "how could a lady be mocking his fellow lady because she is not having a baby", just imagine that, she is trying to impede another person's family plan, as if she knows the plans of the wife and the husband.
I have gone to their yard to check for myself, what's really the actual matter with them, and you see the matter eh, is not a hidden matter anymore ooo, almost all we in the neighborhood has pop out to separate this early morning quanta.
The single mother is laughing at the married woman that she doesn't have a baby after so many years of marriage, just take a look at where their quarrels has gone to, Into something that is not even necessary to broadcast our mouth into.
The single lady broadcast her own and her's was even the worst, she said, "she can never gets married to a man that doesn't have million's of luxurious car's, therefore, it's a shame for the married woman that claim's to be too big in the yard, and be bragging about herself and not behaving like others, so that she might be able to bless her when her dream multi billion dollar man come
There seems to be a little sense in what she said, but her own cup of tea is higher than bragging in the firsts place, and it makes me to look at my shoe's, if i am wearing an oversized shoes to the quanta venue.
But why people do not understand that, marriage is a choice and not a matter of if the man or the woman has silver nor gold nor luxurious car's nor millions of mansion, it is a matter of the heart and our decision to do so, expecting a multi billion dollar man is not still bad, if someone wants to have that kind of person as a lifetime partner it's fine, and he or she is going to see, because what we asked for, is what we will see it, but it's bad when we used it as an agenda to look down on another person.
The married woman said it that, the single mother's child is not handsome, and the child got the ugliness from her mother's ugly face.
Everybody in this world are beautifully made, we all have beautiful and handsome look.
From there, I wish I didn't go out to the quanta venue, I began to caution myself, "what even brought me out here?", imagine, this last statement from one of the ladies that, the the single lady does not know how to dress, she said when she was single like her, dressing was her special thing and she was doing it with many formats, just look at the that.
I can't stand it anymore, hearing things that are not profitable is not my thing, I am going inside the house, and I have closed the window, I do not want to hear any pimp from them, I told my sister what her friend got involves in and she wanted to go there and defend her, "her friend is the single lady", but I could not let her do that to herself, so, I have lock the door on her, because if she just go, her own quanta would be the worst.
By next week, I will asked mother to sent her to my Aunt's place, so that she went there and became useful, what causes all this talku talku is because of nothing to do.