For those men who thinks it's a bad idea for them to approach and ask us out. It's a normal thing for men to find their ways towards us. Men have to love and admire everything about us whether they like it or not, it's not women's fault. They're many men who're very funny whenever they're to ask a woman out. Either they are shy or they end up fabricating lies about their identity at the cost of asking a woman out.
One faithful morning, my mother sent me a message. On my way going, a young and handsome man approached me with the aim of asking me out. At first, the young guy put me into laugh but was not intentional. It was very difficult for the guy to introduce himself appropriately.
Look at the guys introduction!!!
He said to me, my names are Ugwu James and my father is the current governor of Ebonyi State, We own everything in Ebonyi State, Infact I'm the first born of my father and according to tradition I'll be the one who'll inherit every of his property.
My response!!!
Before I responded to the guy, I have seen his body shaking. His body language spoke a lot of his fabricated lies. Now watch out, where are you going all alone without a car or security. The guy said to me, my car broke down and a mechanic is handling it. He said again, in Nigeria now good people like us don't move around with security.
Me. Wow, are you for real, you and your father must be kind to people for moving around without a security.
Me. You said a mechanic is fixing your car, please can we go there and wait for him to fix it up. The guy said' no you're going somewhere already and I'll not like to stress you. I laughed out of the guys stupidity and foolishness.
I have been standing with this guy for hours listening to all his fabricated lies. I became lucky as somebody was passing by and he saw both of us standing. The guy came closer to us and called Mr. lies by his name. The passing guy said, sheee you're here again standing with another girl, you don't want to learn from the one that made you not to eat yesterday. Don't worry, I'll tell oga i saw you with another girl today and you know the implication is no food for you.
The guy who was asking me out became uncomfortable. He was even giving the passing guy sign not to talk.
The guy was still standing with me looking stupidly and foolishly after the passing guy left. I saw the guy was holding money in his hand and I have to make use of his foolishness by collecting the money from him.