With alot of things going on, everybody's mental health is at stake that is why it is important to be nice to everybody, you never know how fragile they are. Problems keep on springing up from different places and when it seems like you've solved one, another one comes up. Ever wondered if problems had a secret headquarters somewhere and was watching you to know when you're at peace so they can do their thing? Because the timing is always close to perfect. For example, I recently solved an issue of a faulty iron in my house and when I thought that was over, the iron burnt my clothe.
Everybody advices you to go see a therapist when you feel down and sad or you want to talk about your feelings. "That's what they're paid for" is what they'd tell you everytime but I've never trusted therapists, because how can you claim to know me better then I know myself? how does that even make sense? and I feel like a therapist would probably call the cops on me once they find out what goes on in my head. I'm pretty sure I'll traumatize any therapist that comes my way. You can say I'll send a therapist to therapy.
I do my own therapy now, it's cheap and it's comfortable. I just sit now and talk to myself. It sounds weird now that I think about it but it's cheap and I'll always chose cheap. I do therapy for my siblings too for free because I just enjoy seeing them thrive 😏. I once advices my sister to stand up to my mum concerning her hair. My sister wanted to dye her hair pink but my mom was against it. She came to me, the self licensed therapist and I told hair to dye it anyway. Guess how that ended, lets just say my sister isn't dying her hair again anytime soon.
Let's talk about our inner demons for a sec, a lot of people say, "fight your demons so you can be better and be free". I say no, I won't fight them. They've been here longer than I have and probably have a ton of experience. It would be a waste of time trying to battle them. Instead, I embrace them and take notes, I could learn a thing or two. We live in peace now.
Have you ever wondered how one letter can change the whole course of a word? I don't know if it was laziness on the part of the people who invented the English language. They probably ran out of words and started adding different letters to different words just to make new ones. For example, we have "though", you add one letter to it and it becomes a whole new word, "thought", remove the 't' and and a 'r' at the beginning and you got "through". The annoying part is those three words don't even sounds alike even though it's just one letter you add to the end. "Quit", add e to the word and it becomes "Quite". Totally different word, totally different meaning, how?? There are plenty of words like that, English confuses me, my head hurts already, maybe I'll learn Spanish instead. Another question to ask my therapist when I eventually get one( that is before they call the cops on me).
I know sad thing anybody is passing through is just a phase and it would soon end but until then, anybody need therapy?? I'm not saying I give it good advice and anything I say might put you in more trouble but therapy is therapy isn't it??