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One of the most famous quotes of the famous entrepreneur Jim Rohn: “You are like the five most people you spend most of your time with,” and I always try to be more related to the successful until I become like them and them.
Now let's talk about the influence of those around us in shaping our lives:
A person sees himself through the vision of others, and tries to convince himself of the health of what he is doing based on what he witnessed from the actions of others surrounding him. Positive people can inspire you to be more successful and give up your negative life habits.
It doesn't matter how smart you are, your talent, or the skills you have, start with them unless you really intend to pay attention to this aspect. So you have to choose well from these 5 people close to you, what do they do in their lives? And how ambitious? Then you will be more avoided to reveal your dreams and aspirations in front of the negative group around you, and this will be a great starting point that will change your psyche.
A person needs constant support and encouragement in the steps of his life, and then you must choose the people you will share the difficult situations of your life, you will feel that you have become more distressed and distracted, and you may feel remorse for what you disclosed, but if these people think with you positively to find solutions to your problems You will feel at the time that there is hope to face these problems and this is a simple example of how people around us influence the concept of social support.
The researchers found that those around us could influence some of our public health behaviors, at a time when we should all look at public health in the time of corona and viruses, as well as the person who surrounds himself with people who are interested in eating abnormally to the point of excessive obesity will be like them, and may feel reprimanded A pronoun and a wrong person for not sharing it with them.
Social integration
Social inclusion is a basic goal for a person, and we do not exaggerate if we say that we are all at different stages doing things that we do not want because he does not want to appear in the image of a naive human being exposed to bullying, and he may also participate in smoking behavior in the bathrooms because he wants to be accepted in the community of friends.
Not far from peer pressure and the notion of social ostracism, self-assertion plays an important role in the acquisition and abandonment of behavior, so you see a university student trying to prove himself in front of others by mocking teachers and professors or preaching failure.
On the other hand, friends also contribute to the acquisition of general principles and concepts, and likewise do the friend who is less committed or even naive.
At a later stage, these general principles and concepts become established, and they turn into criteria for choosing new friends.
Where friends exchange interests and customs, an educated friend may infect his friend with reading, and other customs, except that friends always have a hand in supporting new interests.
In the stages of childhood and adolescence and until the beginning of the youth stage, the parents must take good care of their children's friendships.
Choose your close friends
I am not saying this so that all of you know will be abandoned, as there is a difference between close friends and ordinary friends. Be a social person and try to get to know new people, but do not get too close to everyone unless they are good enough to make your impact on them not cause you harm.
And do not say that I am the master of my decision and I will not be affected by them, so you will be like the one who comes down to open a sewage drain and says I will not smell the bad smell.
Psychological factors push people to mimic the actions that many see, even if they are not convinced in the beginning. This is what Marketing owners do in attracting the customer despite the poor quality of their product, so you open the TV, you find the product in front of you, YouTube, and on the communication sites, then you go down the street and find the product banners suspended. This will prompt you to read and you will say to yourself the goal of experimentation even if you are not convinced about it,
And as the maxim says, "A friend is like an elevator, either to lift you up, or to pull you down."
