Ya sea dejar el trabajo, amamantar o acostarse con otra persona, la crianza de los hijos hoy en día está cambiando de lo que nos han dicho y aunque no cumplas tu palabra en algunos aspectos intenta siempre hacer lo mejor para tu hijo, como en este cuento de la madre perezosa.

Y como era tan vaga decidió dejar de trabajar fuera de casa y dedicarse al bebé. Las 24 horas del día, los 365 días del año. Se dijo algo sobre "APEGO".

Y era tan vaga que amamantaba al bebé todo el tiempo, sin siquiera mirar el reloj, en lugar de cada 3 horas y 20 minutos por toma como le decía la enfermera. Se dijo algo sobre "AMAMANTAR A LIBRE DEMANDA".

Pero era tan vaga que se pasaba todo el día cargando al bebé en brazos y usando un extraño trozo de tela llamado chal que mantenía al bebé seguro, feliz y abrigado. Alguien dijo algo sobre "PORTEO". Y era tan vaga que solo amamantó durante 6 meses sin nisiquiera oler el agua, manzanilla o anis. ¡Pobre cosa! Ciertamente parecía como si se estuviera muriendo de sed. Se habló algo de "lactancia materna exclusiva".

Ahora bien, como era tan perezosa, no puso al bebé a dormir en la cuna ni lo dejó llorar para que se desarrollaran los pulmones, sino que lo puso en su propia cama para que pudiera alimentarse sin tener que despertarse ella allí pudo dormir tranquila y feliz pero de igual manera alguien dijo algo sobre "COSLECHO". Ella era muy vaga, así que en lugar de preparar comida para bebés, le dio comida para que él pudiera agarrarla y chuparla él mismo para aprender más sobre el sabor y la textura. Aunque después tuve que limpiarlo todo. Se dijo algo sobre "BABY LED WEANING".

Eran tan perezosos que no enseñaban a sus bebés a sentarse, a pararse o a caminar, sino que les dejaban hacerlo a su propio ritmo sin interferir ni forzarlos. Y ella era tan vaga que ni siquiera le dejaba calzarse y le hacía caminar descalzo. Se dijo algo sobre "LIBRE MOVIMIENTO". Era tan vaga que no lo llevó a talleres de estimulación temprana, sino que le dio las herramientas y el entorno adecuado para que explorara y descubriera el mundo por su cuenta. Se escribió sobre "acompañamiento".

Sin embargo, ella era tan vaga que no lo obligaba a dejar su pañal o su pecho, esperando pacientemente que lo hiciera de forma natural, sin utilizar presiones ni métodos traumáticos. Se dijo algo sobre la "educación separada".

Y lo peor fue que era tan vaga que no escuchaba cuando la gente la criticaba y la acusaba de ser una madre vaga y en cambio priorizaba ser feliz y amar a su bebé.

Finalmente estaba hablando de mi y mi crianza respetuosa con mi hija Emma que ha pesar de ser madre primeriza soy de esas mujeres que sería capaz de dar la vida por ella y que sin duda estos 7 meses a su lado han Sido los mejores de mi vida y una experiencia que jamás cambiaría porque es que mi bebé es el regalo más preciado que pude haber recibido del más grande nuestro señor y todos los días de mi vida agradezco porque puedo disfrutar de una niña sana y que crece sin duda feliz.

Whether it's quitting your job, breastfeeding or sleeping with someone else, parenting today is changing from what we've been told and even if you don't keep your word in some aspects always try to do what's best for your child, as in this tale of the lazy mother.

And because she was so lazy, she decided to stop working outside the home and dedicate herself to the baby. 24 hours a day, 365 days a year. Something was said about "APEGO".

And she was so lazy that she nursed the baby all the time, without even looking at the clock, instead of every 3 hours and 20 minutes per feeding as the nurse told her. Something was said about "BREASTFEEDING ON DEMAND".

But she was so lazy that she spent all day carrying the baby in her arms and wearing a strange piece of cloth called a shawl that kept the baby safe, happy and warm. Someone said something about "PORTEO". And she was so lazy that she only breastfed for 6 months without even smelling the water, chamomile or anisette. poor thing! He certainly looked as if he was dying of thirst. There was some talk of "exclusive breastfeeding".

Now, because she was so lazy, she did not put the baby to sleep in the cradle nor let it cry for the lungs to develop, but put it in its own bed so that it could feed without having to wake up she there could sleep peacefully and happily but in the same way someone said something about "COSLECHO". She was very lazy, so instead of preparing baby food, she gave him food so he could grab it and suck on it himself to learn more about taste and texture. I had to clean it all up afterwards, though. Something was said about "BABY LED WEANING".

They were so lazy that they did not teach their babies to sit, stand or walk, but let them do it at their own pace without interfering or forcing them. And she was so lazy that she wouldn't even let him wear shoes and made him walk barefoot. Something was said about "FREE MOVEMENT". She was so lazy that she did not take him to early stimulation workshops, but gave him the tools and the right environment to explore and discover the world on his own. It was written about "accompaniment".

However, she was so lazy that she did not force him to give up his diaper or his breast, patiently waiting for him to do it naturally, without using pressure or traumatic methods. Something was said about "separate education".

And the worst part was that she was so lazy that she didn't listen when people criticized her and accused her of being a lazy mother and instead prioritized being happy and loving her baby.

Finally I was talking about me and my respectful upbringing with my daughter Emma, who despite being a new mother I am one of those women who would be able to give my life for her and without a doubt these 7 months at her side have been the best of my life and an experience that I would never change because my baby is the most precious gift I could have received from the greatest of our Lord and every day of my life I am grateful because I can enjoy a healthy child who grows up without a doubt happy.