Hoy Camilo tiene dos años y casi 6 meses y aun duerme conmigo, ha sido la bendicion mas grande y el calorcito mas rico que he sentido en mi vida, se que en algun momento debe salir de nuestra cama, por muchas razones, pero como se que todo es un proceso le voy abriendo poco a poco las posibilidades para que sin trauma alguno pase.
Hacer colecho ha permitido sobre todo por las noche que el proceso de dar lactancia no sea tan dificil, si porque aun Camilo toma su tetica, ultimamente me ha criticado mucho que el ya esta grande y hasta la pediatra me recomendo hacer proceso de destete sin traumas pero no es facil, y siento que no lo se hacer, y aun no estamos ninguno de los dos preparados para que pase, debe llegar pronto llegara y estoy seguro que los dos lo vamos aceptar, sin traumas y como mucho amor.
Hello, hello dear community, today in the challenge of the day I talk about co-sleeping and when it is determined too old for him, the truth is that I do not know, I do not know when it is too old, many believe and contradict what studies have proven, which are the thousands of benefits it brings in the growth of the baby.
Today Camilo is two years and almost 6 months old and he still sleeps with me, it has been the greatest blessing and the richest warmth I have ever felt in my life, I know that at some point he must leave our bed, for many reasons, but as I know that everything is a process I am opening little by little the possibilities for him to pass without any trauma.
Doing co-sleeping has allowed especially at night that the process of breastfeeding is not so difficult, yes because even Camilo still takes his milk, lately he has criticized me a lot that he is already big and even the pediatrician recommended me to do the weaning process without trauma but it is not easy, and I feel that I do not know how to do it, and we are still not ready for it to happen, it must come soon and I am sure that we will both accept it, without trauma and with a lot of love.
Hacer colecho familiar nos ha permitido generar confianza en Camilo, el cada vez que compartimos la camita se siente que eso lo llena de amor, nos abraza y cuando va dormir lo hace muchisimo mas rapido, igual al despertar por las mañanas y sentirnos juntos para el es un regocijo.
Making family co-sleeping has allowed us to build confidence in Camilo, every time we share the bed he feels that it fills him with love, he hugs us and when he goes to sleep he does it much faster, the same when he wakes up in the morning and we feel together for him is a joy.
Creo que practicar colecho no tiene una edad en particular, yo en lo personal jajaja dormi con mi madre hasta que tuve 24 años jajaja, si pero ella no tenia pareja, quizas eso influyo, lo que se de la practica del colecho es que eso permite generar un apego increible, desarrolla mas la sensibilidad y tambien la seguridad. Camilo en lo personal es un niño muy cariñoso y extrovertido y creo que eso lo ha generado el saber que somos incondicional para el, y que aunque tiene su propio espacio pues estamos para el siempre.
I think that practicing co-sleeping does not have a particular age, I personally hahaha I slept with my mother until I was 24 years old hahaha, yes but she did not have a partner, maybe that influenced, what I know about the practice of co-sleeping is that it allows to generate an incredible attachment, it develops more sensitivity and also security. Camilo personally is a very affectionate and extroverted child and I believe that this has been generated by knowing that we are unconditional for him, and that although he has his own space, we are always there for him.
Y por ultimo les quiero decir es que no importa lo que opine la gente, tu tienes el control de lo que pasa dentro de tu hogar y tu llevas la rienda con responsabilidad del proceso de la crianza de tus hijos, la intuicion y el amor siempre es el arma secreto en este proceso, ustedes como familia determinaran donde y hasta cuando de las cosas y situaciones vividas con su terruños, aqui en esta vida de papas lo que hace falta es mas empatia y entender que cada proceso se vive distinto y lo que es funcional para ti, quizas para los demas no! vive cada dia a tu manera.
And finally I want to tell you that no matter what people think, you have control of what happens in your home and you take the reins with responsibility for the process of raising your children, intuition and love is always the secret weapon in this process, you as a family will determine where and when of the things and situations experienced with their land, here in this life of parents what is needed is more empathy and understand that each process is lived differently and what is functional for you, maybe for others not! live each day in your own way.
Sigo compartiendo mis experiencias como mamá a través de su canal, gracias siempre por el apoyo incondicional, @Motherhood una comunidad abierta para todos los papitos, sigamos construyendo, creando y creciendo.
I keep sharing my experiences as a mom through your channel, thank you always for the unconditional support, @Motherhood an open community for all daddies, let's keep building, creating and growing.
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