Love is infinite and you transmit it in different ways. I do not have nieces and nephews because I do not have siblings but God has granted me the joy of having two nieces who are actually two daughters of a very close cousin, both I love with my soul, since their birth they have been an essential part of my life, they have been in the good times, happy and not so pleasant too.
Hemos pasados momentos maravillosos, he sido quizás su ejemplo de crecimiento las he honrado en sus cumpleaños, las traigo de vacaciones a mi casa y las hago muy feliz por unos meses, mientras vuelven a su realidad como ella les llaman.
We have had wonderful times, I have perhaps been their example of growing up, I have honored them on their birthdays, I bring them on vacation to my house and make them very happy for a few months, while they return to their reality as she calls them.
Sin embargo los adultos muchas veces creamos nuestras propias barreras, barreras muy locas al saber que las condiciones en algún momento cambian y esto lo digo por lo siguiente: yo quede embarazada y pues pensaron que todo cambiarían y a veces hacemos comentarios que sin darnos cuenta lastiman mas de lo que nos imaginamos. Indudablemente mi vida cambiaría al ser madre pero mi amor por ellas eso si que no se vería afectado por el nacimiento de mi hijo, al contrario sumaria para que crezcan juntos y como hermanos.
However, as adults we often create our own barriers, very crazy barriers knowing that conditions will change at some point and I say this because of the following: I got pregnant and they thought that everything would change and sometimes we make comments that without realizing it hurt more than we imagine. Undoubtedly my life would change when I became a mother but my love for them would not be affected by the birth of my son, on the contrary, it would add so that they grow together and as siblings.
Llego Camilo a mi vida y las condiciones no se han dado como he querido para que ellos puedan compartir seguido, una de las niñas nos visito cuando nació, pero con la llegada del covid todos nuestros planes familiares se han visto afectado por esta situación pues físicamente y geográficamente vivimos a unas cuantas horas, y para nadie es un secreto las condiciones económicas por las cuales atravesamos los venezolanos sumado a las variables gasolina y transporte para poder movilizarnos o movilizarlas a ellas.
One of the girls visited us when she was born, but with the arrival of Camilo all our family plans have been affected by this situation because physically and geographically we live a few hours away, and for no one is a secret the economic conditions through which we Venezuelans go through added to the variables of gasoline and transportation to be able to mobilize ourselves or mobilize them.
El amor hacia un hijo es inimaginable pero indudablemente a mis sobrinas ni con el pétalo de una rosa, son dos amores completamente distinto con intensidades distintas, pero por ambos capaz de cualquier cosa para que siempre estén bien. De hecho nos esperan con muchas ansias y hasta una pancarta le han hecho a mi bebe.
The love for a child is unimaginable but undoubtedly not even with the petal of a rose for my nieces, they are two completely different loves with different intensities, but for both of them I am capable of anything so that they are always well. In fact they are waiting for us with great anxiety and they have even made a banner for my baby.
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