A new stage enlivens our lives and Camilo's hehehehe.... In the last days he has given a radical change where that child who accepted everything that mommy and daddy gave now begins to change, begins a process of transformation and to have his own concept, understanding that we are not his extension, but he is beginning to develop his own personality.
Es difícil ahora detectar lo que le pasa pues lo que era común para el jajaja, ya no ahora si alguna comida no le gusta con autoridad y enfoque me dice ¡nooo mama deja!, lo que le encantaba que era el baño se ha vuelto super difícil, pero he comprendido que la calma es mi mejor herramienta en este nuevo proceso.
It is difficult now to detect what is wrong with him because what was common for him hahaha, not anymore now if he doesn't like some food with authority and focus he tells me "nooo mama stop", what he used to love which was the bath has become super difficult, but I have understood that calm is my best tool in this new process.
De este cambio lo mas difícil ha sido poder controlar las pataletas en la calle, cuando no se quiere ir de algún lugar o cuando algo que le gusta no se le puede comprar, este proceso es difícil entender por la gente ya que solo recibes criticas y comentarios insanos como por ejemplo: Ese niño si esta grosero eso es porque lo tienen muy consentido, o quitale la teta esta muy grande por eso es que esta así.
The most difficult part of this change has been to control the tantrums in the street, when he doesn't want to go somewhere or when he can't buy something he likes, this process is difficult for people to understand since you only receive criticisms and unhealthy comments such as: That child is rude because he is too spoiled, or take the boob away, he is too big, that's why he is like that.
Los hijos crecen apresuradamente y uno junto a ellos debe crecer desde el amor y el aprendizaje para poder dar lo mejor, cada uno vive y experimenta diferentes etapas se que los limites deben existir pero imponerlo no es la mejor alternativa, se que muchas veces estamos cansadas, no hemos descansado lo suficiente, somos madres todo terreno, pero la violencia jamas sera una alternativa de corrección para esta etapa tan dura.
Children grow up in a hurry and one must grow with them from love and learning to be able to give the best, each one lives and experiences different stages, I know that limits must exist but imposing them is not the best alternative, I know that many times we are tired, we have not rested enough, we are all terrain mothers, but violence will never be an alternative of correction for this hard stage.
Sigo compartiendo mis experiencias como mamá a través de su canal, gracias siempre por el apoyo incondicional, @Motherhood una comunidad abierta para todos los papitos, sigamos construyendo, creando y creciendo.
I keep sharing my experiences as a mom through your channel, thank you always for the unconditional support, @Motherhood an open community for all daddies, let's keep building, creating and growing.
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