Bienvenidos a mi blog, amigos de hivers 🤗
Mis niños comprenden edades de 17, 13 y 9 años, darles la noticia del embarazo para mí fue un desafío, ya que yo no me sentía emocionalmente bien, estaba muy sensible y todo me provocaba llanto. Pero era mi responsabilidad decirles por qué estaba así.
Al contarles, se quedaron sorprendidos y por un momento no me creían y luego se emocionaron tanto que bailaron, rieron y gritaron de felicidad 😍 por mi parte yo lloraba 🤭
Gracias a Dios, los niños reaccionaron de una forma muy positiva, desde el comienzo del embarazo estaban siempre cuidándome para que no le pasara nada a la bebé.
Cuando nos enteramos que era una niña, mi niña Luz lloró, yo me asusté pues creí que sentía celos ya que no sería la única niña de la casa, pero gracias a Dios no era eso, lloraba de la emoción de tener una compañera para jugar a las muñecas y a la doctora.
Mi niña es muy consentida, ama estar siempre conmigo y que yo la mime, la peine y haga cosas para ella, y durante el embarazo yo le hablaba mucho sobre cómo es la vida de un bebé y todos los cuidados que amerita y ella siempre me decía que me ayudaría a cuidar de la bebé.
Y es así, Luz es mi asistente, cuando papá se va a su trabajo ella viene a mi cama, solo para estar atenta a cuando se despierte su hermana, para ayudarme a cambiarle el pañal para cantarle y hacerla reír, vigilarla mientras yo voy al baño y todos esos pequeños cuidados que marcan una hermosa relación de hermanas.
Lo más lindo de todo esto es que Luz ama a su hermana a tal punto que no le gusta escucharla llorar, se preocupa cuando la estoy bañando de que no se valla a ahogar, se asusta si mientras está alimentándose se ahoga y está siempre vigilante de que no la ronden zancudos o moscas.
Canta y baila para ella, y está anhelando el momento que la bebé ya pueda caminar para poder jugar e ir al parque.
Y bueno amigos, está a sido mi experiencia hasta ahora, las hermosas cosas que ocurren en casa con mi hija Luz desde la llegada de su hermanita Elisa y aunque existen algunos momentos de incomodidad en ella, siempre tengo la delicadeza de mostrarle el amor que siento por ella sin importar cuan grande hoy este.
Y eso es lo más importante, demostrarle que ella siempre será también mi bebé 👩👧
Inglés
Welcome to my blog, friends of hivers 🤗
Having a child is something special that happens to a couple and I think all couples who have children feel that great excitement for the arrival of a baby to the family, but how do the children of the house feel? Here is what happened with my little girl Luz (9 years old).
My children are 17, 13 and 9 years old, giving them the news of the pregnancy was a challenge for me, since I was not feeling emotionally well, I was very sensitive and everything made me cry. But it was my responsibility to tell them why I was like this.
When I told them, they were surprised and for a moment they didn't believe me and then they were so excited that they danced, laughed and shouted with happiness 😍 I was crying 🤭.
Thank God, the children reacted in a very positive way, since the beginning of the pregnancy they were always taking care of me so that nothing would happen to the baby.
When we found out it was a girl, my little girl Luz cried, I was scared because I thought she was jealous since she would not be the only girl in the house, but thank God it was not that, she cried from the excitement of having a companion to play dolls and the doctor.
My little girl is very spoiled, she loves to be with me all the time and that I pamper her, comb her hair and do things for her, and during the pregnancy I talked to her a lot about how is the life of a baby and all the care it deserves and she always told me that she would help me take care of the baby.
And so it is, Luz is my assistant, when daddy goes to work she comes to my bed, just to be attentive to when her sister wakes up, to help me change her diaper to sing to her and make her laugh, watch her while I go to the bathroom and all those little cares that mark a beautiful sisterly relationship.
The nicest thing about all this is that Luz loves her sister to such an extent that she doesn't like to hear her cry, she worries when I'm bathing her that she won't drown, she gets scared if she chokes while feeding and she is always watching out for mosquitoes and flies.
She sings and dances for her, and is looking forward to the moment when the baby can walk so she can play and go to the park.
And well friends, this has been my experience so far, the beautiful things that happen at home with my daughter Luz since the arrival of her little sister Elisa and although there are some moments of discomfort in her, I always have the delicacy to show her the love I feel for her no matter how big she is today.
And that's the most important thing, to show her that she will always be my baby too 👩👧.
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