Greetings friends. May you always be in good health and be more resilient in carrying out your role as a mother.
My name is Betty Handayani. As in the photo, I am a young mother with one son while the one wearing a red veil is my own mother. I want to share a story that hopefully with this story all parents, especially mothers, can be more enthusiastic in living life and playing the role of a woman who already has children.
In Marvel movies, the heroes are those who have wings, who can fly like Iron Man, can climb buildings like Spiderman, have shields like Captain America, have hammer weapons like Thor. However, the real hero in this world is mother. There may be some truth to that mother is an angel without wings.
My mother is my hero. He was a hero since I was in the womb until I myself felt pregnant and had children. I married young and of course a little experience learned a lot from a strong and tough mother.
When I was in trouble with household problems, my mother was always there to encourage my husband and I. One day my mother once gave me advice which I still remember and use as a principle in my married life.
"Simplicity is the key to happiness in life. When you have problems in the household. Remember what mom said, never complain or open up family disgrace on social media. It's okay to vent, but remember to talk about all your life problems with wise people and in the community. right time and place."
This mother's advice is very meaningful to me, because recently in my place of residence there have been many divorce cases because one of the partners was proven to be having an affair due to a lot of venting and domestic disgrace on social media, one of which is Facebook.
Maybe some people agree that it's okay to talk about household problems on social media such as Facebook and some people also don't agree, including parents specifically for mothers who join this community.
However, it never hurts to reflect on my mother's advice. I really say whatever the problems of our lives in carrying out the role of a mother, hopefully we can all get through it. Amen
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I hope the article is of some use.