Hello everyone. The past week has been filled with anxiety following my son's medical check-up.
Yesterday, my son exhibited a concerning symptom—a sudden high fever. I'm eager to gain a deeper understanding of the potential causes behind this sudden spike in temperature. Then I remembered that my son jumped off my back, elbow accidentally hit my shoulder. Shortly after, he developed a high fever, and I now believe this incident was the likely cause.
Even though my heart aches with worry over his illness, the reality of our situation demands that I go to work. I have no other choice but to take him with me. It's not ideal, and I'm sure it will be a challenge, but I'm determined to make it work. I did my best to care for him while still fulfilling my responsibilities at work. I also make sure to check on him frequently throughout the day. I know it won't be easy, but I'm committed to doing everything I can to keep him safe and comfortable while I'm at work.
My baby was so clingy while I was working, and I felt guilty that I couldn't nap with him when he wanted. He was so exhausted that he fell asleep before finishing breakfast. His fever persisted all day, and I was so worried.
Upon arriving home from a tiring day at work, I was immediately filled with concern for our son's well-being. He had been exhibiting signs of discomfort and restlessness, and I was eager to explore any possible remedies to alleviate his distress. Knowing the deep-rooted traditions and practices within our culture, I turned to my husband with a heartfelt request. I asked him to reach out to his mother, my mother-in-law, and inform her of our son's current condition.
Furthermore, I suggested she consider performing a traditional Filipino healing practice known as "Hilot."His mother is skilled in the art of traditional massage. This ancient method passed down through generations, involves gentle massage and manipulation techniques believed to restore balance and promote healing within the body. I held onto hope that this time-honored tradition could offer our son some relief and comfort.
My mother-in-law, who lives nearby, kindly agreed to massage my son upon my request.
My son is quite irritable and doesn't like to be touched, so I had to stay with him while my mother-in-law performed the traditional massage. I carefully explained the process to my son to help him understand why his grandma needed to do this. Thankfully, he stayed relatively still throughout the massage.
After the massage session, I ensured he took his prescribed medication before allowing him to sleep.
In this particular instance, the massage was intended to alleviate muscle tension and promote relaxation. The medication, on the other hand, was likely prescribed to address a specific underlying condition.
His temperature had reached 39 degrees while he slept. I wasn't overly worried, however, because he was sweating profusely, and I knew his fever would soon break. After an hour, I checked his temperature again, and it had indeed subsided. Relieved, I was finally able to go to sleep.
My son is no longer running a fever. Although I suggested he stay at my workplace, he insisted on going to school today.
Being a working mom is a constant juggling act, a delicate balance of responsibilities that often feels overwhelming. The emotional toll can be particularly heavy when my child is unwell. It's heartbreaking to know that I can't always be by their side to offer comfort and reassurance, to simply hold them and chase away their fears. The guilt of having to prioritize work over their immediate needs is a heavy burden to bear.
Despite the challenges, I'm determined to find a way to navigate this difficult path. I'm constantly searching for strategies to better manage my time and energy, to create a sense of balance that allows me to fulfill my responsibilities as both a mother and a career woman.
Being a working mom is undoubtedly one of the most challenging roles I've ever taken on, but it's also one of the most rewarding. It's a constant reminder of my strength, my resilience, and my unwavering love for my child.
Thank you for taking the time to read my motherhood article. I sincerely hope that you found it engaging and insightful. May divine blessings be bestowed upon us all as we continue our journeys.
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