Un stop 🚫 al bullying
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Greetings hivers, hello👋 nice community, again in our ideal place where we can express our experiences around motherhood, today I want to socialize about bullying and the fear that as parents can seize us.
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I think we have all experienced some fear that our children may be the target of this type of harassment by anyone, whether a child or an adult, in particular I have had to deal with my child regarding this, since his way of being many do not understand it and sometimes tend to make fun of him, how do I help him cope with this whole situation, I make him understand that as long as he does not pay attention to the aggressors, they will get tired because they will notice that their mockery does not have any effect, the second thing I do, if this situation is at school I talk to the teacher to channel the situation through the representatives and at the same time talk to the group so that this type of incident does not happen again, I have done it this way and it has worked for me.
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I think I have witnessed many situations, but what happens when they are no longer words and physically attack is where you must act as quickly and without fear of speaking for fear that they take the child as the tattletale and want to do worse things, recently in my child's school talks about bullying to children were held, they addressed them with short footage with subliminal messages regarding the issue, it was very assertive talk because in this way you can teach that what they believe is game for others is emotional devastation. Also through this, they motivate the children who are going through this situation not to be afraid and to talk about what is happening to them in order to help them.
Uno de mis temores se cumplió.
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One of my fears was realized.
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Since my nieces entered the high school this year we have been watching, lately the public high schools are becoming very violent, students hit each other and make recordings of these violent acts and then intimidate and be mocked for the child or adolescent who has been beaten, I comment that along with my mother I am the representative of the girls, my sister left the country (Venezuela) in search of improvements and left us in charge of custody, Since then we have watched over the physical and emotional well being of the girls and as I was telling you since they entered high school I am concerned about the environment where they develop and my greatest fear was fulfilled, days ago one of the girls was being the object of insinuations by her classmates with another boy so that both teenagers would get involved in a love relationship as they noticed that neither my niece nor the boy paid attention to this type of harassment, they opted to subdue them both by force to force them to kiss each other. My niece sustained a slight blow to the head during the struggle.
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She arrived home very indignant first because of the abuse to which she was subjected and secondly because she sought help from her guidance teacher and he replied, next time you put a fist in her face and I will defend you at the school board, that answer made me very angry and even more so from an educator. It should be noted that my niece did not want to tell me anything, she was afraid of what the group could do to her if she denounced to the school administration, I confess that I was also afraid but I was brave enough to tell my niece that this could not stay that way.
Asistiendo al colegio de mi sobrina/Attending my niece's school
¿Cómo se puede gestionar
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How can it be managed ?
|I give advice to parents and representatives, do not remain silent in the face of this type of abuse, denounce, and give a stop 🚫 to bullying.
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Dear Friends Thank you for reading, commenting and voting my post your support is very valuable to me. The collages, pictures and captures if any are of my authorship and have been captured and/or edited from my Samsung galaxy A01 phone in Margarita Island/Venezuela
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