Hello beautiful people,
Good morning, happy new week and happy new month.
Raising kids can be so tactical and draining most times so is better one enjoy her singlehood while it last because after marriage and when you start having kids it is no longer about you but your kids.
I never really enjoy my singlehood, i really wanted to explore, travel the world and live out my best life helping people and making every seconds count yeah! That was me four years again, a very ambitious lady that is focused, purpose oriented and a go getter.
After my NYSC (Nigeria Youth Service Corp) a service to my motherland Nigeria for one year martiage came knocking and i accepted with as clueless as i was about life and not even understanding what marriage entails i went into it, did the ceremony and boom marriage starts and today i am still pushing to forever together.
I had kids unexpectedly and it was okay since it was just one boom another came and then i realize life is not about me anymore but my kids, i can go hungry just for my kids to be okay, let go many of my self wishes for my kids to be well equipped.
Most times i even forget my husband in the process and he will start complaining and my answer will always be " let this kids have it first i will come to you" he will just look at me and say: "before they came i was here and when they are grown and out, i will still be here so take care of me too" i will smile.
He has less of my attention because he is am adult and my kids needs it more than he does.
I give them my time, my attention, my care, affection and everything a mother should give a child. When they are okay i feel so happy and anytime sickness knocks and they are not making me shout i will start crying for them and they will be looking at me.
My sincere prayers everyday is for God to protect them for me, guide their path and help them see the light early. The world is so corrupt that most times I'm scared and some days i pray for them crying. I pray they come out great for us.