Hoy fue un gran día, tenía tiempo que no compartía con mi hija más tiempo del que le dedicaba por las noches, tiempo que para mí no era el suficiente y supongo que para mi pequeña tampoco, jugábamos un rato antes de que ella fuese a la cama, pero este día iba a ser diferente, mi esposa tenía una reunión familia, la graduación de su hermano y mi pequeña no podía asistir, así que pasaríamos el día juntos, mi pequeña está en proceso de recuperación de varicela y la mayoría de los que asistirían a la reunión no les había dado y por seguridad mi esposa había decidido no asistir, le dije que no había problema yo cuidaba de mi pequeña, solo eran unas horas y aunque no fueron unas horas fue genial.
Today was a great day, it had been a while since I had shared with my daughter more time than the time I spent with her in the evenings, time that for me was not enough and I guess for my little one either, we would play for a while before she went to bed, but this day was going to be different, my wife had a family reunion, her brother's graduation and my little one could not attend, so we would spend the day together, my wife is in the process of recovering from chicken pox and most of those who would attend the reunion had not been given and for safety my little one had decided not to attend, so we would spend the day together, my little girl is in the process of recovering from chicken pox and most of those who would be attending the reunion had not gotten it and for safety my wife had decided not to attend, I told her no problem I would take care of my little girl, it was only a few hours and even though it was not a few hours it was great.*
Resulto ser excelente día, solo unas cuantas lágrimas al momento de llevar a mama al restaurante donde se encontrarían, pero fue momentáneo, le dije que iríamos por chocolate y su carita cambio de inmediato, compramos unos en camino a casa y llegamos, por mi parte era un día para ella, hacer todo lo que quisiera y aun cuando Alissandra no se expresa con palabras suficientes, su manera de comunicarse es suficiente para mí, tenemos una conexión tan grande que no hacen falta palabras para entendernos, jugamos todo el resto de la mañana, como dice mi esposa volteamos la casa patas pa arriba, luego a la hora del almuerzo le dije que me ayudara a cocinar, ella misma coloco un banco en el mesón de la cocina y me pasaba todo para preparar.
It turned out to be an excellent day, only a few tears when we took mom to the restaurant where they would meet, but it was momentary, I told her we would go for chocolate and her face changed immediately, we bought some on the way home and we arrived, for my part it was a day for her, to do everything she wanted and even though Alissandra does not express herself with enough words, her way of communicating is enough for me, we have such a great connection that words are not needed to understand each other, Her way of communicating is enough for me, we have such a great connection that no words are needed to understand each other, we played all the rest of the morning, as my wife says we turned the house upside down, then at lunch time I told her to help me cook, she herself placed a bench on the kitchen counter and passed me everything to prepare.
Luego de comer, decidimos ver unos capítulos de sus series favoritas, busque unas almohadas y cobija, lleve la laptop a la sala y nos recostamos a mirar, estuvimos allí por horas, compartimos galletas, jugo encima de mí, y conmigo con sus muñecas, parecía que tenía baterías ilimitadas, hasta que después de unas cuantas horas simplemente cerro sus ojitos y tomo su siesta hasta la hora de la llegada de mama.
After eating, we decided to watch some episodes of her favorite series, I got some pillows and blanket, took the laptop to the living room and we lay down to watch, we were there for hours, we shared cookies, juice on me, and with me with her dolls, it seemed that she had unlimited batteries, until after a few hours she simply closed her eyes and took her nap until the time of mom's arrival.
Mientras ella dormía, pensé tantas cosas, tomando en cuenta que no he sabido distribuir mi tiempo de una manera que pueda afianzar mis lazos con ellas, entendí que debo dedicar más tiempo para ella y realizar más actividades en conjunto, es importante para ella, me lo ha demostrado cada noche cuando viene a mí y me dice que vamos a la cama a jugar, pero por tener que atender otras cosas solo pasan las horas y ella se duerme, pero aun sabiendo que no le dedico el tiempo suficiente ella tiene un vínculo conmigo irrompible.
While she slept, I thought so many things, taking into account that I have not known how to distribute my time in a way that I can strengthen my ties with them, I understood that I must dedicate more time for her and do more activities together, it is important to her, she has shown me every night when she comes to me and tells me that we go to bed to play, but having to attend to other things just hours pass and she falls asleep, but even knowing that I do not dedicate enough time she has an unbreakable bond with me.
Mi esposa siempre dice, debemos aprovechar el tiempo porque ella no será niña por siempre, crecerá y tomara su camino, debo admitir que esto me aterra, tener que dejarla volar en algún momento, pero sé que no es momento para pensar en el futuro, cuando el presente está vivo, me encanto el día con ella, espero poder lograr con mi pequeña una relación basada en confianza, respeto y amor, por eso debo empezar desde ahora, ya que mi pequeña es mi sangre y lo más importante para mí en la vida.
My wife always says, we must take advantage of the time because she will not be a child forever, she will grow up and take her path, I must admit that this terrifies me, having to let her fly at some point, but I know it is not time to think about the future, when the present is alive, I love the day with her, I hope to achieve with my little one a relationship based on trust, respect and love, so I must start from now, because my little one is my blood and the most important thing for me in life.
