Bullying can also happen at home
Greetings dear friends of this beautiful #motherhood community, today I want to share with you a topic that has been very famous and that has created great controversy in recent years such as bullying, and that due to the great increase in these Harassment cases have been handled more consistently in certain areas of society, mainly in schools.
Como todos Sabemos el bullying es el maltrato que puede sufrir un niño o adolescentes ya sea físico o verbal el cual se da de manera repetitiva en el tiempo causandoles grandes problemas de seguridad, autoestima y socialización. Pero la mayoría del tiempo podemos notar que se habla del maltrato o acoso escolar, pero es de mencionar que un niño también puede sufrir de bullying en casa.
As we all know, bullying is the mistreatment that a child or adolescent can suffer, whether physical or verbal, which occurs repeatedly over time, causing them great security, self-esteem and socialization problems.
But most of the time we can notice that there is talk of abuse or bullying, but it is worth mentioning that a child can also suffer from bullying at home.
Es por ello que quiero dedicar mi post al bullying pero mirándolo desde ese acoso que se da en casa, un niño puede sufrir de maltrato físico o verbal en casa y puede provenir de hermanos, tíos, y hasta sus propios padres.
Ya sea mediante burlas, ofensas, poca atención, desprecios o maltrato físico, ya sea en forma de juegos o bromas el niño puede tomarse las cosas enserio y causarle daño psicológico sin querer, pues no son maneras de bromear.
That is why I want to dedicate my post to bullying but looking at it from that harassment that occurs at home, a child can suffer physical or verbal abuse at home and it can come from siblings, uncles, and even their own parents.
Whether through teasing, offense, little attention, contempt or physical abuse, whether in the form of games or jokes, the child can take things seriously and inadvertently cause psychological damage, since they are not ways to joke.
Siempre nos enfocamos en el maltrato en las escuelas, por los compañeros, amigos y maestros pero nos hemos puesto a pensar si nuestros pequeños pueden presentar bullying en casa, muchos hermanos mayores tienden a burlarse de los más pequeños por no poder realizar algunas tareas o equivocarse en cosas que ya ellos han pasado, algunos familiares también tienden a reírse y burlarse del aspecto físico de los niños si son muy flacos, muy gordos, muy pequeños, y así aunque muchas veces no lo veamos cómo tal, le están realizando bullying a ese niño.
We always focus on mistreatment in schools, by classmates, friends and teachers, but we have thought about whether our little ones can present bullying at home, many older siblings tend to make fun of the little ones for not being able to do some tasks or making mistakes in things that have already happened to them, some relatives also tend to laugh and make fun of the physical appearance of the children if they are very skinny, very fat, very small, and so even though many times we do not see it as such, they are bullying that little boy.
También conozco de casos de maltrato verbal de padres hacía sus hijos, diciéndoles palabras bruscas, groseras y ofensas, en muchas ocasiones me ha tocado presenciar en mi caso como docente como una madre es capaz de decirle a su hijo que no sirve para nada, que es un bago, un bruto, y otras malas palabras que no quiero mencionar acá.
Da tristeza que un niño deba sufrir de esto en casa donde debería sentirse seguro y sentir apoyo de sus padres y familiares.
I also know of cases of verbal abuse of parents towards their children, saying abrupt, rude and offensive words to them, on many occasions I have had to witness in my case as a teacher how a mother is able to tell her son that he is useless, that he's a bago, a brute, and other bad words that I don't want to mention here.
It is sad that a child must suffer from this at home where he should feel safe and supported by his parents and family.
This type of bullying is even more important since other types of harassment, if we cannot end it or overcome it, then we can move away from a school, it can change it, from a community you can move, from friends we can distance our children, but when the bullying comes from the same family what would be the action to be carried out.
It is worrying that these situations occur today.
Queridos madres y padres, es alarmante pues se ha manejado la idea de leyes que castiguen el bullying pues es algo que se ha salido de nuestras manos, pues han ocurrido casos en los que los jóvenes que sufren de este mal han llegado a intentar suicidarse por no conseguir el apoyo o por desconocimiento de sus familiares de los problemas que el joven está soportando solo.
La familia fue creada para amarse, respetarse y apoyarse no para maltratar.
Dear mothers and fathers, it is alarming because the idea of laws that punish bullying has been handled because it is something that has gotten out of our hands, because there have been cases in which young people who suffer from this evil have even tried to commit suicide for not getting the support or due to ignorance of their relatives of the problems that the young person is enduring alone.
The family was created to love, respect and support each other, not to mistreat.
Amigos este ha Sido mi post para todos ustedes,quiero agradecerles por tomar un minuto de su valioso tiempo para pasar por mi post.
me despido deseándoles un excelente día, bendiciones para todos.
Friends this has been my post for all of you, I want to thank you for taking a minute of your valuable time to go through my post.
I say goodbye wishing you an excellent day, blessings to all.
All the photos were taken with my Redmi 9 phone, AND the translation was done through Google.