I agree. My oldest was the responsible one, even at the age of 2. I was expecting my second when I was taken off my feet. Since I had insomnia (with all my pregnancies), what do you do when taken off your feet and you have a little one? You lie on the couch, read some, watch TV some, and fall asleep!
Every time I woke up, I saw my daughter's doll baby blanket on me. Even back then she wanted to care for others. Now, some 30 years later, she is an in home caregiver for a woman with dementia. Perfect for her!
The second one? Well, just ask any of our friends the difference. I'm so glad he's grown out of that!
By the way, the others after that are also different. I think some of it depends on how far apart in age they are, too.
RE: She's just something else...