Good day parents here and all over the world. Am happy to be with you to share my thoughts with you. Nurturing a life is not an easy task at all, most times we have a picture of what we wish that we would have become and how maybe our parents did not get it with us so we want the story to be different with us. As we interact with friends and family on a daily basis we have a mental picture of what we want from our children.
To bring those mental pictures to play it's either our choice how all will be possible. On my part I have this big picture that I wish it plays out in regards to my children.
Now the big question what kind of parent would you like to be?
I will want to be a parent that is always there for her kids. My children are still tender and most times they can't help themselves so it becomes so frustrating to them when they need something and they don't get it.
Let me be that parent that hears the heart of my kids. Most times children can't express themselves, so they need you to just understand everything. When they are hungry, they most times can't open up to say they need to eat, so giving them that listening ear and observing them always helps me to know they need to eat.
To be a parent that gives them that space to grow is my wish, a times grown adults don't give space for the childrens excesses forgetting that one time they behaved in such nasty manners too.
A parent that does not appear the rod is who I wish to be. Oh yes!!! There is time for everything, so giving that discipline will not make them for rather they become the better version of themselves. I have a special cain that I use in exclusive moments so when it comes out they know they have committed.
What kind of parent you truly are?
We all are work in progress, a times I get so busy that it becomes difficult for me to keep to what I desire but am trying my best to maintain what I have in mind. Am that parent that gives my children the best I can afford, am their nanny so we do things together. I do my best to do the first coaching academically and otherwise.
Working to improve myself is my uttermost priority. I do my best to be patient with them. Just yesterday my son came home from school with a scale on his face the way I approached the matter I noticed he was not happy so I kept mute so as not to offend him. Later in the even i quitely asked again and he told me the person that did that to him. Patience is highly needed when it comes to caring for the children. Also I do some study on child development in relation to temperament and the likes.
It's my believe that I have spoken so much and little about this topic. Thank you for visiting my blog friends see you next time.