Knowing which is the right path to choose for our children is not as simple as we think of it.... sometimes it is not in our hands to make decisions for them.Believe it or not, it is not easy to become a good parent. Sometimes do to what we pass true they hands of our parents we project the fears and the experienced to them. Respect the decision of our children will help them to go a long way in life to achieve their aims.Life is a cycle that goes from one place to the other, to what we believe for our children's future may help them or may not.
It is very confusing to say what I'm saying and very difficult to believe.... As a mother myself, I live to believe that any decisions that I made for my son will work because that was my thinking from my childhood little did i know that it doesn't work that way.They don't always go hand in hand, nor are they similar.... In fact, sometimes when I sit down to think about it coldly and calculating, living in the country I live in, and being aware of all the problems we have to deal with on a daily basis; the most convenient decision for him, would be to prepare him emotionally, to be a successful.
Is that what I want for him? Yes Absolutely yes. In fact, the fact of having to think about this making me very nervous. That child is my life, and I don't know if I am prepared for a case like the one I am presenting in this post.... However, every parent in the world knows that if we have to sacrifice for our children, we would do it without hesitation. And although it may seem strange.
Sometimes what seems simple is not so easy when you care about the consequences of your acts. I am clear about the goal of my motherhood: that my
son is really, genuinely happy.... I am also very aware of where I live and what the limitations of my life and my country are. But I don't allow my frustrations to block what could be a brighter future. the mere possibility of him achieving what I know steals my breath. I don't have to decide yet; there's really no need to rush.
Sometimes their are some mistakes we parents do in the life's of our children, is not good to be pushing them into what they are not supposed to do or what that is not their aims. As a mother I have think of my own way but it left for him to make his own decision when ever he grow up and start making decisions for him self.
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