Enjoying Rough & Smooth Days, Kids Are Perfect Gift To My Life

Life is like two sided sword ⚔️, at times cold and sometimes warm. But blending the two balances ⚖️ the situation to stabilize life. On the rough days, I would be the most insane and craziest person in the World when I would be shouting at my 3 kids and they would never listen. Especially they they return from school after missing their room for eight hours. The groung is for them to play with all sort of gadgets in the room, causing tear and wear of of materials like papers and tattered clothes. Their games start to dismantle and scatter all things in the room. My attempt to haut them would be like being harsh on them and feeling frightened. However, they need to be guided in order not to hurt themselves with hard or sharp objects.

The last born become my burden where I have to keep close eye monitoring all her movements. In time of this, I might come from work wanting to relax the body on bed for about 30mins and continue my routine day work before the sun set. The Television wires, extension boards and mobile phone chargers are in exposure to her reach. She know difference about things that can hurt and things that wouldn't hurt. I can never sleep if I have a duty to direct her motion in the room. The peel of biscuits and toffees become the joystick 🕹️ to produce sound, just rubbing her hands to produce sound in my ears, not knowing that she is disturbing my mood. I have little to complain about this since she is a kid and cannot reason deep as adult. She is only 1 and 1/2 learning how to say "dada" and "mama!"

In the rough days, there is more time for Dad to learn how to cling babies at their back with cloths, especially when Mom is busy at the kitchen just to support her accomplishment of household chores. This is one aspect of life that most men are deficient. As couples, the Man has to be a little flexible learning how to support the wife in times of need of helping hand especially when the baby is crying 😂. Sometimes, the man need to follow the baby when clawing around the compound so that he or she does put unedible substance in his or her oral. I thank God that my first daughter has grown enough to help me cling her younger sister at her back.

Kids are funny 🤣 in our lives when they are around us. Without their presence it's like I miss out something precious 💞 💕 in my life which cannot fix. That's why I find it difficult to travel and spend long time at certain place without seeing them. They sometimes create jokes push you to talk a lot, share their experiences of what they learn in school, the way even they will hug 🤗 you after a long hours seeing you and a lot of stuff they do to relieve you from thinking and stress. Here, I see kids as gift the Almighty God has blessed us with. Even though, they are difficult to be handled especially when they don't agree on certain things.

I feel very proud at their transitional age from clawing to walking. At that time, they become self controlled somewhere wanting to do things themselves, for instant if you want to pick them, they would prefer to walk.

The happiness 😊 compound when my kids are able to do well in school. This was my first time I attending graduation ceremony for my two kids; Darkwa & Adubea. Their Mom has always being present when it comes to this function, but this time, I decided to attend myself. It was just an honour for me to be part of this ceremony seeing my kids wearing graduation gowns.

The program was such adorable 🥰 as a lot of pictures were taking with the graduants, certificates were honoured and a lot of funs with the students and other parents present. This lifestyle portray how important it's to have kids around you. Even though money does everything and making you feel comfortable, but when you have kids they are precious assets in life since they can also help you to prosper in future and many things that we cannot command money to do, these kids can do them better.