Hello community, today I want to tell you my new experience as a working mom, a long time ago I met a great person who has a business with her family, she always proposed me to work with them, but the truth is that I did not want to leave my son so young, at least I wanted to wait until he was more than a year and a half old; however the situation led me to do it although Jetter is 19 months old, he will be 2 years old soon, so I decided to start working because she offered me to do it for 5 hours, since she understood my situation.
Without a doubt I accepted the job, I am not going to lie to you, it has been very hard for me to leave my son for 5 hours, I have never been so long without him, it is as if a piece of me was missing; Luckily I found a person I trust who has two little girls and they play with him so he doesn't cry, although I was surprised because he doesn't cry when I leave, in fact when I go to pick him up he starts to cry because he wants to keep on playing, so I am calmer on that part, however I feel bad leaving him with another person even though they are only a few hours for me they are eternal.
On the other hand I feel that what I am doing is good because Jetter only saw me every day and the truth is that they need to be in contact with other children, it has also been easier for me to put him to sleep, since he arrives tired and he sleeps all night long, something that did not happen before, without leaving behind that when he sees me he starts to tell me everything in his language and even shows me what he did, it is amazing how they can tell you things without asking him why he arrived and he starts talking non-stop.
The truth has been a great challenge for me, I thought that this moment was not going to come yet, but I had to do it, it is hard, since I got used to be 24/7 with him, little by little I will adapt although the first day I was about to leave everything because I felt like a bad mom, however with the help of my partner who supported me I could continue, it has been a difficult week adapting, I know it is for the good of all, besides this way he is distracted playing with other children.
In conclusion, I think that every mother who has to work knows what I am going through, at first it is not easy, but little by little you can adapt; it is also good to give yourself a break, because even if you do not want to be without your child, every mother needs to be away from home breathing another environment.
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