Desde que me hice madre he tratado en lo posible de que mis hijas tengan distracción en la medida de nuestras posibilidades, les faltan sitios que aún no conocen; sin embargo, los tengo presentes… Han salido invitaciones a diversos lugares a compartir, pero para aceptar ir, hay que evaluar muchos aspectos como: dinero, la seguridad a donde se va a ir, además de la presencia de mi esposo junto a mí, la alimentación y otros recursos a utilizar en el lugar…
A lo que se ha tenido que rechazar, puede ser que alguien del que me leen haya pasado por lo mismo y se identifique. Les cuento, resulta que ya una de mis niñas me había dicho que quería ir a la piscina, en ese momento le contesté que estábamos esperando a que tuviese más edad para defenderse ante cualquier eventualidad.
Pasó el tiempo y mi hija me volvió a decir, mis primas se fueron de paseo, nos encontramos de vacaciones, ¿nos piensan sacar?, le respondí que lo iba a conversar con su papá, le hice la observación que nuestros tiempos no son los mismos que el de los demás, por lo que se puede ir en cualquier temporada.
Esos planteamientos de mi hija fueron el detonante para que mi esposo y yo habláramos nuevamente acerca de ir a la piscina. Nos pusimos de acuerdo en todo lo que se iba a llevar, decidimos que fuese el viernes pasado para que vivieran ese episodio al lado de sus padres.
Ya con todo listo, desde los trajes de baños, salvavidas, protector solar que no debían faltar, nos fuimos a llevar a las niñas a la piscina. Al llegar sus caras de felicidad eran indescriptibles, buscamos un toldo con mesas y sillas cerca de la piscina.
Luego le quite la ropa que llevaban puestas, debajo tenían los trajes de baños, al igual que yo…, nos fuimos a ver las piscinas, hablé con personas que estaban rodeando las piscinas para saber la profundidad de las mismas, tomé mi decisión y nos quedamos en una acorde para sus edades.
Como mis hijas estaban emocionadas por entrar a la piscina, nos metimos las tres, estaba ideal para ellas, mi hija de cinco años, la agarré cargada, pude percibir que tenía miedo, les di confianza, hasta que después ellas lo hicieron sola.
Nos turnamos mi esposo y yo en la piscina, ya que era primera vez que se bañaban en ella, nunca lo habían hecho, por eso decidimos comprarles los salvavidas para protegerlas, porque no saben nadar. Aunque uno no se puede confiar del todo en los salvavidas, había que estar al pendiente de ellas.
En la estadía nos pasó algo, por unos minutos, perdí de vista a mi hija pequeña, me asusté, pero pude conseguirla rápido. Por razones de este tipo es que salgo con mi esposo, si estando los dos pasa situaciones, al estar sola más.
Pasamos el día muy felices, compartiendo en familia, atenta al cuidado de las dos, tomé fotos para el recuerdo, les encantó todo lo que tenía ese lugar recreacional, deseando que se repita en otra oportunidad.
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My impressions of my daughters' first time in the pool.
Since I became a mother I have tried as much as possible that my daughters have distraction to the extent of our possibilities, they are missing places that still do not know; however, I have them present ... Invitations have gone out to various places to share, but to accept to go, you have to evaluate many aspects such as: money, security where you are going to go, plus the presence of my husband with me, food and other resources to use in the place ....
It may be that someone reading this has gone through the same thing and identifies with me. I tell you, it turns out that one of my girls had already told me she wanted to go to the pool, at that time I replied that we were waiting for her to be older to defend herself against any eventuality.
Time went by and my daughter told me again, my cousins went for a walk, we are on vacation, are you planning to take us out, I replied that I would discuss it with her dad, I made the observation that our times are not the same as others, so you can go at any time of the year.
Those approaches from my daughter were the trigger for my husband and I to talk again about going to the pool. We agreed on everything that was going to be taken, we decided that it would be last Friday so that they could live that episode next to their parents.
With everything ready, from bathing suits, life jackets, sunscreen that should not be missing, we went to take the girls to the pool. When we arrived their faces of happiness were indescribable, we looked for an awning with tables and chairs near the pool.
Then I took off the clothes they were wearing, underneath they had their bathing suits on, just like me..., we went to see the pools, I talked to people who were around the pools to know the depth of the pools, I made my decision and we stayed in one according to their ages.
As my daughters were excited to enter the pool, the three of us got in, it was ideal for them, my five year old daughter, I grabbed her loaded, I could perceive that she was afraid, I gave them confidence, until later they did it alone.
My husband and I took turns in the pool, since it was the first time they were swimming in it, they had never done it before, so we decided to buy them life jackets to protect them, because they don't know how to swim. Even though you can't completely trust the lifeguards, you had to keep an eye on them.
During our stay something happened to us, for a few minutes, I lost sight of my little daughter, I got scared, but I was able to get her back quickly. It is for reasons like this that I go out with my husband, if situations happen when both of us are there, even more so when I am alone.
We spent the day very happy, sharing as a family, attentive to the care of the two, I took pictures for the memory, they loved everything that had that recreational place, wishing to be repeated another time.
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