Hello, dear friends, happy start to the week, loaded with many blessings for you, today I want to share my little boy's 5th birthday, which was different from previous birthdays, so it seemed to me, an alternative for parents who have not yet put it into practice, they can have this tool to use, for their little ones on their birthdays.
The previous birthdays of my little one, we celebrated it in a party room with inflatable mattresses, music, award shows, surrounded by his paternal and maternal families, when the pandemic appeared, we began to hold his celebrations at home with his relatives closest, this year I decided to focus on the fact that his 5th birthday would be different, which consisted of sending him to make his cake, prepare some appetizers to celebrate it at school with his classmates, which my son wanted so much, to Enjoy with your friends and your teacher.
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Hola, queridos amigos, feliz comienzo de semana, recargada de muchas bendiciones para ustedes, hoy deseo compartir el cumpleaños número 5 de mi pequeño, el cual, fue diferente a los anteriores cumpleaños, por lo que me pareció, una alternativa para los padres que aún no lo han puesto en práctica, puedan tener esta herramienta a utilizar, para sus pequeños en sus cumpleaños.
Los anteriores cumpleaños de mi pequeño, se lo celebrábamos en un salón de fiestas con colchones inflables, música, show de premios, rodeados de sus familias paterna y materna, cuando se presenta la pandemia, comenzamos a realizar sus celebraciones en el hogar con sus familiares más cercanos, este año me propuse, en enforcarme en que su cumpleaños número 5 sería diferente, el cual consistía, en mandarle a elaborar su, torta, preparar algunos pasapalos para celebrarlo en el colegio con sus compañeritos, que tanto deseaba mi hijo, para disfrutar con sus amistades y su maestra.
I planned to take overtime morning and afternoon, attending around 30 patients with different problems, family conflicts, depression, anxiety, substance use, children with attention deficit, aggressiveness, insecurity, low self-esteem, among others, although the week was emotionally exhausting, therefore, but it was worth it, because I was able to provide tools and help to all those people who were crying out to be listened to and be guided and to be able to comply, with the goal of making a beautiful sharing for my son.
On Thursday, April 21, we took my little boy to his school, so that he could carry out the teacher's scheduled activities during the morning, which was beneficial, because I was able to give up the time, to look for the cake that I had sent him. to make and finish buying the things that were missing, he could not imagine, what his cake would be like, despite the fact that he had told me one night that he wanted it from Spider-Man, when we arrived, it was a great surprise for William and it showed to his teacher, classmates, friends from other classrooms, with great joy his cake, sweets, appetizers and soda for the celebration of his birthday.
Although I felt a little frustrated and sad, because the cake I ordered, for $24, did not look much like the one in the photo, this one was small, although it was very delicious and served everyone, I expected it to be a little bigger, for the cost, it left me a little calm that everyone expressed that they liked it and my little boy was excited, mentioning that his cake was beautiful, giving me a big hug of comfort.
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El Jueves 21 de Abril, llevamos a mi pequeño a su colegio, para que cumpliera con las actividades de la maestra pautadas en el transcurso de la mañana, lo cual fue beneficioso, porque pude rendir el tiempo, para buscar la torta que le había mandado a hacer y terminar de comprar las cosas que faltaban, él no se maginaba, como sería su torta, a pesar, que me había comentado una noche que él, la quería del hombre araña, cuando llegamos , fue una gran sorpresa para William y mostraba a su maestra , compañeros, amistades de otros salones , con gran alegría su torta, dulces, pasapalos y refresco para la celebración de su cumpleaños.
Aunque me sentía un poco frustrada y triste, porque la torta que encargué, por 24$, no se parecía mucho a la de la foto, esta era pequeña, aunque estaba muy deliciosa y rindió para todos, esperaba que fuese un poco más grande, por el costo, me dejaba un poco tranquila que todos expresaron haberle gustado y mi pequeño emocionado, mencionando que estaba linda su torta, dándome un fuerte abrazo de consuelo.
We decided to bring some cookies, soft drinks, cachapitas with cheese as appetizers, for the children and teacher, where my little one took the initiative, to distribute the appetizers and attend to his guests, although we told him to do it ourselves and he will enjoy with his companions dancing and playing , he mentioned doing it himself, I thought it was very sweet and good of him to want to share, being an only child, sometimes that process of sharing is difficult for him, being surrounded by adults, it was one of the things that made me encouraged to celebrate his birthday, at his school, so that he could interact and share with children his age.
Some danced, jumped, sang with William, observing a good relationship with his classmates, that sadness I felt, I for the cake, was passing, seeing how much fun he was sharing with his classmates and teachers.
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Decidimos llevar unas galletas, refrescos, cachapitas con queso como pasapalos, para los niños y maestra, donde mi pequeño tomó la iniciativa, de repartir los pasapalos y atender a sus invitados, aunque le expresábamos hacerlo nosotros y el disfrutará con sus compañeros bailando y jugando, él menciono hacerlo él, me pareció algo muy tierno y bueno de su parte el querer compartir, al ser hijo único, en ocasiones ese proceso de compartir, se le dificulta, por estar rodeado de puros adultos, fue una de las cosas que me incentivó a realizarle su cumpleaños, en su escuela, para que se relacionará y compartiera con niños de su edad.
Algunos bailaron, brincaron, cantaron con William, observando una buena relación con sus compañeros de clase, esa tristeza que sentía, yo por la torta, fue pasando, al ver lo divertido que estaba compartiendo con sus compañeros y maestras.
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After we shared with the teacher, we sang, we danced with the children, for the time, which was already going to be, the departure of the children from class, we decided to place their classmates around the table and William in the middle to sing his birthday, this was my first time celebrating it at school and I can tell you, from my point of view, that it was better than the previous times when I had to organize, place the balloons, wait for the people at the party and then clean all the space, where most of the guests were adults and very few children, ended up super tired and less than we enjoyed it were us.
Unlike this birthday, which there were a number of children who enjoyed and shared with my son, I decided to take a final photo with his teacher, so that he would have a memory of his childhood, of the person, who has helped him a lot in his progress. educational, as well as filling it with much affection and love.
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Luego que compartimos con la maestra, cantamos, bailamos con los niños, por la hora, que ya iba a ser, la salida de los niños de clases, decidimos, colocar a sus compañeros alrededor de la mesa y William en el medio para cantarle su cumpleaños, esta era mi primera vez realizándole su celebración en el colegio y puedo decirle, desde mi punto de vista , que fue mejor, que las anteriores veces que tenía que organizar, colocar los globos, esperar las personas del festejo y luego limpiar todo el espacio, donde la mayoría de los invitados era adultos y muy pocos niños, terminaba super cansada y menos que disfrutábamos éramos nosotros.
A diferencia de este cumpleaños, que hubo una cantidad de niños que disfrutaron y compartieron con mi hijo, decidí tomar una foto final con su maestra, para que tuviera de recuerdo de su infancia, de la persona, que lo ha ayudado mucho en sus avances educativos, como a su vez, llenándolo, de mucho cariño y amor.
Then, when we got out of school, we had another birthday surprise for him, we took him to enjoy his favorite food: Pizza and what better way than to take him to Pizza Mia, for its great promotions 1 extra large pizza plus 4 soft drinks for $10, what I liked the most was that it had two parks, for him alone and he could enjoy it to the fullest, one for children from 1 to 2 years of age and the other for older children, although I thought that I would not be able to climb because of the small , I was surprised by the great agility he had to go up and down super fast, through the largest park.
We called his grandma patena, so she could celebrate that day with us, because William loves his grandma very much, in previous posts, he had mentioned that he had a good relationship with her, despite the fact that her son does not fulfill the functions of a father. , this time the only thing he sent her was $10 for her birthday, after not fulfilling her obligations for 5 months,
(because he is in another country) being something painful for me as a mother, since the child does not want him, due to his absence, not calling him, being aware of his education, food and clothing and his emotional well-being, but It's something that is already out of my hands, I was very emotionally exhausted, asking him to look for him to call him, it didn't matter if he didn't have to offer his son, but thank God, with the support of my parents, I feel As a mother, my son is growing up happily and teaching him the beauty of valuing the small and great things that life and people offer us.
Luego, que salimos del colegio, le tenía otra sorpresa de cumpleaños, lo llevamos a que disfrutar de su comida favorita: Pizza y que mejor que llevarlo a Pizza Mia, por sus grandes promociones 1 pizza extra grande más 4 refresco por 10$ , lo que más me gusto, fue que tenía dos parques, para él solito y podía disfrutarlo al máximo, uno para niños de 1 a 2 años de edad y el otro para niños más grandes , aunque pensaba que no iba a poder subir por lo pequeño, me sorprendió la gran agilidad que tenía para subir y bajar super rápido, por el parque más grande.
Llamamos a su abuela patena, para que celebrará ese día con nosotros, porque William, quiere mucho a su abuelita, en anteriores post, les había mencionado, que con ella mantenía una buena relación, a pesar que su hijo no cumple las funciones de papá, en esta oportunidad lo único que le envió fue 10$ para su cumpleaños, después de no cumplir con sus obligaciones por 5 meses,
(debido a que se encuentra en otro país) siendo algo doloroso para mí como madre, ya que el niño no lo quiere, por su ausencia, de no llamarlo, estar pendiente de su educación, alimentación y vestimenta y de su bienestar emocional, pero es algo, que ya se escapa de mis manos, yo me desgaté mucho emocionalmente, solicitándole que lo buscara que lo llamara, no importaba si no tenía que ofrecerle a su hijo, pero bueno gracias a Dios, con el apoyo de mis padres, siento como madre que mi hijo está creciendo feliz y enseñándole lo bonito de valorar las pequeñas y grandes cosas que nos ofrece la vida y las personas.
This celebration did not end here, even though that day was something very simple, on Saturday April 23, we went with my family from Barquisimeto to see the Dunas Park, which is located in the city of Valencias State - Carabobo (Venezuela), on Avenida Principal, De Mañongo, Nro.175-505, URB Mañongo, which has different mechanical and aquatic attractions, different slides, a surf track, swimming pool, for adults and children, they had awnings and chairs, to enjoy the park, restaurants within its facilities, which, I could not take a photo of, due to low battery.
Esta celebración no acabo aquí, a pesar que ese día fue algo muy sencillo, el sábado 23 de abril, nos fuimos con mi familia de Barquisimeto a conocer el Parque Dunas, que está Ubicado en la ciudad de Valencias Estado - Carabobo (Venezuela), en la Avenida Principal, De Mañongo, Nro.175-505, URB Mañongo, que cuenta con diferentes atracciones mecánicas y acuáticas, diferentes toboganes, una pista para surfear, piscina, para adultos y niños, contaban con toldos y sillas, para disfrutar del parque, restaurantes dentro de sus instalaciones, los cuales, no les pude tomar foto, por poca batería.
We decided to take a break, to sing my fat man's birthday again surrounded by his family, the turntable was a gift from my father, whom my son knows is his grandfather, but he recognizes him as his father, being someone very special to him, On occasions, I have heard him say, my father William (Grandfather) is good, with me, he plays with me, takes me to the park, picks me up at school, lends me the phone to play, I love him very much, his grandparents for my son Maternal parents are an important key in her life, due to the unconditional love they give her every day.
William expressed his gratitude to his family, for the great walk to the Parque Dunas, he mentioned that there were many swimming pools and what he liked the most, is that his mother was not working, what happens is that in the afternoons my parents take care of him while I I work and that sometimes affects him, so I'm looking for a job, only in the mornings to spend more time with my son in the afternoons.
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Decidimos tomar un descanso, para cantar nuevamente cumpleaños a mi gordo rodeado de su familia, la torna fue un regalo de mi padre, a quien mi hijo sabe que es su abuelo, pero lo reconoce como su padre, siendo para él alguien muy especial, en ocasiones, lo he escuchado decir, mi papa William ( Abuelo) es bueno, conmigo, él juega conmigo, me lleva al parque, me busca al colegio, me presta el teléfono para jugar, yo lo quiero mucho, para mi niño sus abuelos maternos son una clave importante en su vida, por ese cariño incondicional que le brindan todos los días.
William expresaba su agradecimiento a su familia, por el gran paseo al Parque Dunas, mencionaba que había muchas piscinas y lo que más le gustaba, es que su madre no estaba trabajando, lo que ocurre es que por las tardes mis padres lo cuidan mientras yo trabajo y eso a veces le afecta, por lo que estoy buscando tener un empleo, sólo en las mañanas para dedicarle más tiempo, a mi hijo, en las tardes.
It was one of the birthdays that my son enjoyed the most, because he was surrounded by his loved ones, who are watching over him every day, giving him security and love, despite the distance from Barquisimeto to Maracay, he expresses a great feeling for his family, so much so that he is not shy about being himself.
Fue uno de los cumpleaños que más disfruto mi hijo, porque estuvo rodeado de sus seres queridos, los cuales, están al pendiente de él, todos los días, brindándole seguridad y amor, a pesar de la distancia de Barquisimeto a Maracay, el expresa un gran sentimiento por su familia, tanto así, que no se cohíbe, de ser él mismo.
Waiting, you have enjoyed this little tour, on my son William's 5th birthday and if you have not had the opportunity to give your children a birthday at your school, take the initiative to do so, you will see how much more they enjoy sharing with their classmates class, helping them to strengthen their social and economic relationships is not so expensive, but the most important thing is that they spend a different morning with their friends.
From my experience, he married me, with this alternative, of making his celebrations at his school, because I observed, in him, a great change of wanting to help and share more with other children in this particular case, with his classmates.
Thank you, each of you, for taking your time to read my post. Greetings
Esperando, hayan disfrutado de este pequeño recorrido, en el cumpleaños número 5 de mi hijo William y si no han tenido la oportunidad de realizarle a sus hijos un cumpleaños en su colegio, tomen la iniciativa de hacerlo, verán como disfrutan más compartiendo con sus compañeros de clase, ayudándolos, a fortalecer sus relaciones sociales y económicamente no sale tan costoso, pero lo más importante es que ellos, pasan una mañana diferente, con sus amistades.
Desde mi experiencia me casó, con esta alternativa, de hacerle sus celebraciones en su colegio, porque observé, en él, un gran cambio de querer ayudar y compartir más con otros niños en este caso particular, con sus compañeros de clase.
Gracias, a cada uno de ustedes, por tomar de su tiempo, en leer mi post. Saludos
❤️Until next time ❤️ Hasta la Próxima❤️
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