Hola mamis y papis de esta hermosa comunidad, hoy quisiera hablarles de mi experiencia como mamá en cuanto a un tema que muchos papás cuando están con su bebé los primeros días y llora se preguntan, que es si darle chupón para que se tranqulilice o dejarlo llorar.
Como la mayoría de los padres yo no quería darle chupón o chupete porque escuchaba mucho decir que los bebes se enfermaban más a menudo, que si se le perdía había que salir a buscar uno rápidamente ya que no iban a parar de llorar, en fin un montón de comentarios que te asustan.
Hello moms and dads of this beautiful community, today I would like to tell you about my experience as a mother regarding an issue that many dads when they are with their baby the first days and they cry wonder, which is whether to give him a pacifier so that he calms down or let him cry .
Like most parents, I did not want to give them a pacifier or pacifier because I heard a lot that babies got sick more often, that if they got lost they had to go out and find one quickly since they would not stop crying, in short a lots of comments that scare you.
Cuando llego mi primer hijo yo tenía uno chupón que me habían regalado y no quería dárselo a mi hijo, lo pospuse por muchos días, hasta que un día ví que se estaba mentiendo sus deditos a la boca y decidí darle chupón, me dije es más fácil quitarle el chupón que el dedo.
When my first child arrived I had a pacifier that they had given me and I did not want to give it to my son, I postponed it for many days, until one day I saw that he was lying his fingers to his mouth and I decided to give him a pacifier, I said to myself it is more easy to remove the pacifier than your finger.
Pero aunque estuvo varias días con chupón yo me di cuenta que prefería el dedito gordo de su mano y me dije no insistir más y dejarlo que se metiera su dedito a la boca, ya que si con eso él se sentía tranquilo yo era feliz.
A pesar de eso Andrés muy rara vez tenía infección de garganta fue un niño sano, el chupo dedo hasta los 4 años ya que yo pensaba que como ya faltaba poco para empezarsele a caer los dientes era lo mejor para su dentadura futura.
Yo estaba preocupada pensando que le iba a resultar difícil pero realmente me sorprendió lo fácil y rápido que fue.
Como lo logramos, les cuento, yo hice una pizarra y le he hice un calendario y cada día que el pasará sin el dedo en la boca le colocaba una estrella hasta llegar a la semana que era cuando recibía un pequeño detalle por haberlo logrado, por supuesto habian dias que no lo conseguía y le quitaba su estrella, era muy cómico porque yo lo veia cuando pasaba por su cuarto y él por costumbre se metía su dedo pero se acordaba y enseguida se lo sacaba así pasaron unos meses quizás dos hasta que finalmente dejo de meterse su dedo a la boca.
But although he spent several days with a pacifier, I realized that he preferred the fat finger on his hand and I told myself not to insist any more and let him put his finger in his mouth, because if he felt calm with that, I was happy.
Despite this, Andrés very rarely had a throat infection. He was a healthy child, he sucked his thumb until he was 4 years old, since I thought that since there was little left before his teeth began to fall out, it was the best thing for his future teeth.
I was worried that it was going to be difficult for him but I was really surprised at how easy and fast it was.
How we did it, I'll tell you, I made a blackboard and I made him a calendar and each day that he will pass without his finger in his mouth I would put a star on him until he reached the week that was when he received a small detail for having achieved it, for Of course, there were days that he could not do it and he took away his star, it was very funny because I saw him when he passed by his room and he would stick his finger out of habit but he remembered and immediately took it out like that, maybe two months passed until finally He stopped putting his finger in his mouth.
Cuando nació mi hija es otra experiencia totalmente diferente, pero esta si fue con el chupón o chupete, que les contaré en un próximo post.
When my daughter was born is another story but this one was with the pacifier, which I will tell you in a future post.
Gracias por leerme.
Thanks for reading me.