What was going to be a routine check-up got complicated to the point that my mother lost her right eye. I really don't want to put pictures of her in that situation, my mother is 84 years old and suffers from some pathologies, blood pressure, circulation, spinal problems, etc. Two weeks ago I accompanied her to my younger brother's house to perform some medical studies that will allow us to give her a better quality of life, even though she will not be cured, at least she will recover.
En el trayecto del viaje me manifestó que le dolía el ojito note que lo tenía apagado llegamos compramos unas goticas y esperar la consulta con el oftalmólogo esperamos que pasará los días festivos bueno allí empezó las malas noticias por una caída previa estaba perdiendo el líquido del ojo se busco varias opiniones y todos tenían el mismo diagnóstico se operó de emergencia colocando una membrana para sostener el líquido pero no resultó.
On the way to the trip he told me that his eye was hurting, I noticed that it was dull, we bought some drops and waited for the consultation with the ophthalmologist, we waited for the holidays to pass, well, there the bad news began, due to a previous fall he was losing the liquid in his eye, he sought several opinions and they all had the same diagnosis, he underwent emergency surgery, placing a membrane to hold the liquid, but it did not work.
Ahora viene la fatal noticia que no se le puede recuperar el ojito y hay que extraerlo meterla a quirófano otra vez para evitar una infección 😭😭😭 solo tengo un nudo en mi garganta las cosas cambian tan rápido de una consulta de rutina a perder un ojo aunado al riesgo que existe por su problema cardíaco que se le aceleró en estos últimos 8 meses al igual que un problema renal que en su último chequeo no lo tenía o por lo menos eso me dijeron los médicos solo resta confiar en Dios 🙏🙏
Now comes the fatal news that her eye cannot be recovered and it will have to be removed and she will have to undergo surgery again to avoid an infection 😭😭😭😭 I just have a lump in my throat, things change so fast from a routine consultation to losing an eye, added to the risk that exists due to her heart problem that has accelerated in the last 8 months as well as a kidney problem that at her last check-up she did not have or at least that is what the doctors told me, the only thing left to do is to trust God 🙏🙏🙏
Hoy me tocó a mí lo que yo llamo maternidad a la inversa hacer por mi mamá lo que ella hizo por mi cuidarme y protegerme me volví la mamá de mi mamá está es una etapa de la vida que no está exenta de dolor y tristeza la situación se puso difícil pero solo me toca sacar fuerzas para seguir adelante todavía falta mucho camino por recorrer ya que no solo es el ojito tiene otras complicaciones hay momentos que empiezo a comportarme como ella y les digo a mis hijos que yo voy a ser igual así que espero me tengan la misma paciencia.
Today it was my turn to do for my mother what she did for me, take care of me and protect me, I became my mother's mother. This is a stage of life that is not without pain and sadness, the situation has become difficult but I just have to find the strength to move forward, there is still a long way to go since it is not only the little eye, it has other complications, there are moments when I start to behave like her and I tell my children that I will be the same, so I hope they will have the same patience with me.
Ahora mi mamá necesita el apoyo de toda la familia y de sus hijos y nietos ya perder un órgano no es fácil y requiere de ayuda psicológica y mucho amor para que pueda sobrellevar la perdida de su ojito no es fácil cuando te das cuenta que se invirtieron los roles y guiarla incluso cuando está conversando está complicada pero sigue siendo una madre y mujer maravillosa que dió su vida por su familia es mi turno de honrarla te amo mucho madre de mi ❤️ siempre voy a estar para ti como lo hiciste tú por mi.
Now my mom needs the support of the whole family and her children and grandchildren as losing an organ is not easy and requires psychological help and lots of love so she can cope with the loss of her little eye it is not easy when you realize that the roles were reversed and guide her even when she is conversing she is complicated but she is still a wonderful mother and woman who gave her life for her family it is my turn to honor her I love you very much mother of me ❤️ I will always be for you as you did for me.
Gracias por visitar mi blog les comparto un versículo bíblico en Efesios 6:2-3 que dice:
Honra a tu padre y a tu madre, que es el primer mandamiento con promesa; 3 para que te vaya bien, y seas de larga vida sobre la tierra.
Thank you for visiting my blog I share with you a Bible verse in Ephesians 6:2-3 that says:
Honor thy father and thy mother, which is the first commandment with promise; 3 that it may be well with thee, and that thou mayest live long upon the earth.
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Fotos tomadas con mi teléfono Yezz Art pro 📸/Photos taken with my Yezz Art pro phone 📸