Tuesday Blessings to you all
Happy Tuesday to the great and marvelous parents in this #Motherhood community, hope you enjoyed the sweetest holidays with your family, mine was so loaded up with joy and celebration.
It's my pleasure to have everyone here, i want to share with you guys on how my Cousin's birthday was, and the experience that i got from their family.
My cousin, Bright, is celebrating her 7th birthday, i am so proud of her she's so brilliant and smart girl i have never seen, it's good to educate children because they needed best conditions and atmosphere which will definitely bring out the best out of them and also good performance in their academical ways.
In what ways do we need to celebrate our child/children?
One thing is, as a good parents we need to buy then things in any of their achievement, which will motivate them to do more next time, to guide them and protect them from dangerous thing.
I love my cousin so much and she loves me more, i always buy her things that she requested, she always take her education so serious, reading her books, doing her homework, all these are the things she doesn't joke with, i always promise to buy something for her if she takes first or second position and she will never fail to take first.
Their parents take all the responsibility but only few things things makes my Little Bright feel so bad, which is ....................................................................
My Experience
When i was 20, i were living with my Aunty, Aunty Anita, Bright mother, she a very had working woman, a woman of admirable character, we all know that the responsibility of men is to provide and women needs to prepare, my Aunty didn't have any chance to cook, i will cook, prepare Bright to school, I'm the one that take Bright to school and take her back, dress her bed and keep and eyes on her, my Aunty always used her money in everything, she didn't have any time with her only daughter, she only spent her money here and there that why her daughter loves me so much, if it was to choose a mother i believe she would have choose me over her mother, so mothers are to look after their child/children, mother needs to give their children a special care and love, i know it takes a lot to do that.
I still love Bright even though I'm married witha kid, this last sunday was Bright birthday, my called me asked me to sew a birthday cloth for her, and she brought an old clothe for me, telling me to lose the upper half length which was lace and the down part was black net, and i have to put in another color of net, my Aunty told me that her shoes color are something deep pink, so o just want to buy all the material with my money just as a gift to my little Miss. Bright, then i went to a shop and bought a baby pink color net because the color of her day was baby pink so i decided to go with the color, i cut the net according to her size and stitch a gathers on it and i cut the back side longer than the front and also stitches a gathers to it andd join them together on the half length of the fabric lace, then i change the sleeves style and put a single hand on it, because the birthday came to me so urgent and i couldn't afford ant gift so i decided to sew the cloth as my gift to her.
One thing i like from Bright, she doesn't feel shay in anything that she is asked to do, even in th public, any where she just do it comfortable, eventually my Cousin was really excited about her birthday, i remember once she toled me that her 7th birthday will be sweeter than her mom's birthday, imagine a child saying that not reasoning that her mom will be the one sponsoring it, now a days children are very wise, so sweet mothers, let give our child/children all of our love, let be by their side and let them know what they suppose to know, and also encourage them to do what is right.