I am the guy who always dream to fly. Yes I am Md.Shariful Islam. My nick name is Shawon. I am from Mirsarai, Chittagong, Bangladesh. I am 32 years old and I am an IT support Engineer.
** I am here first time with this community to write my own stories which I always like to save in my memories. If any day I lost my mind for any reason this community can remind this stories which I spend with my most valuable gift from my creator. At first I like to give thanks to my creator. My creator gift me special gift which is My Mother. I just love and respect to her. She is best ever to me. **
My mother name is Gul Nahar Islam. She is now near 73 years old. She is not over height. She will be near 158-159 CM. But she is just awesome and great one ever. After read the stories I wish all of you will agree with my word.
As we know, A mother always take care of their children. Not only children a good mother always try to care and make happiness to the entire family. My father was too long and too much smart man. But my mother was short. But My mother has those quality which I can not see to many more mothers. Start the journey and than all of you can realize it.
My father was 15 years more elder from my mother. My father did stroke and left his job. He came back to home. My father lost ability to walk and eat food. He was disable to walk with right leg and also disable to eat food with right hand. My father was more than 175 CM and was a smart person. Every one from our society gave title and call him 'Shahab Mia" . In English meaning of "Shahab Mia" is Smart man. When my father did stroke and was disable to walk and eat food my mom never did argue to anyone. She never think negative anything. She always take care we both brothers and obviously to my father also. She did bath to my father, took her to the toilet, clean him always. My father was alive 17 years after stroke. Those 17 years my mother don't feel bother for a single time. Nowadays most of the ladies left their life partner for their own wish or demand. Few good also have. But averagely if we survey most of them left their husband, children and family. But My mother did struggle 17 years for her life partner. Still now my mother alive. But she lost her life partner at 08-January-2013 and I lost my father. But I am thankful to my creator that I got the best gift to have that kind of parents.
Few memories and stories of my mother with me and my father, which I still remind . Yes I will like to know from all of you. Few memories or stories in below:
- One day my father came back from office for vacation. He was the government employee in Bangladesh Railway. He did job at Lalmonir hat area. I was too young. I was the younger one in my family. My mother lost 5 children of her by death. I was the last one. I do lots of naughtiness in my life. One day I did not attend to the tutor. My mother shouted me and I felt angry to her. I left my house with 5$. Suddenly my father came from mosque after complete his prayer. My mom was behind me and told me to come back. I saw she was crying. My father came and saw I was crying and go away from home with my begs and 5$. I was just 7 years. My father was walking with stick because he was paralyzed. He was shouted to my mom. She was so nervous when my dad shouted to her. But when I came back to home she was too happy. I can feel the smile in her face. I was little that time. so did not understand my parents system to take me back to home.
- I am running 33 years now. I am married now. But I saw from my childhood to still now my mom walks behind me to forward me to my destination. I can not imagine how a woman can do it last more than 32 years. I never seen pain in her. She always walk and suggest me many things. She taught me many things in this walking session. Few I am mentioning here:
- Never speak lie.
- Never do cheat.
- Be honest if you fall in problem also.
- Never do bad conversation behind anyone.
- Always care your family
- Donate money from your earning to orphan and poor people.
- Do pray to your creator.
- Always work for humanity.
I always try to follow my mom lesson. I will do it till my last breath. I am worry sometimes if I lost her as my father how I will spend my life. I really love and respect her and yes she is the greatest gift for me. I love you AMMA .