Hola Hola

Preguntarme seriamente en qué le afectó a César los cambios que estamos haciendo en casa, no sabría decirte exactamente porque no estoy en sus zapatos, sin embargo, te contaré lo que he visto.

Desde hace casi un mes que estoy en casa, haciendo lo posible para poder trabajar desde casa y darle una mejor estabilidad a mi chamo en el hogar que nosotros dos estamos creando juntos.

Al principio se le veía relajado, la primera vez que llegó a la casa estando yo aquí, entró con una sonrisa en la cara que me encantó, claro, traía un dulce que yo había comprado, pudo ser su reacción a la merienda que le esperaba.

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Estar en casa le ha dado más estabilidad emocional ya que se encuentra en su entorno, algo que él quería y necesitaba, estar en su hogar. Más que todo para jugar en su pc, que al final la uso yo todo el día para trabajar.

Aunque eso a él le interesa porque eso hace que yo genere más dinero y a él se le compre lo que se le antoje, pero sabemos que hay límites, solo que él siente cuando yo le digo que tengo la plata justa para completar la compra.

En eso si va bien, ha entendido que no es no y luego cuando haya, él tiene su beneficio. Así ya lo hemos vivido y así lo manejamos lo mejor que podamos, ambos, como una familia en un país en crisis.

Si yo le digo que todo es color de rosa, quizás él va a crecer en un mundo totalmente diferente al que yo le pinté, así que en esa manera le educo de economía y manejo de los recursos.

Retomando sus reacciones como niño autista que está teniendo cambios radicales en su vida, no malo, solo son diferentes. Llegó un momento que lo vi ansioso, no sé si era porque quería algo en específico, o le afecta estar en una situación incierta.

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A mí me afecta muchísimo, a él también, es tan ansioso como yo, queremos que las cosas nos salgan bien rápido en vez de esperar y tener paciencia, algo que debo trabajar. La paciencia en ambos.

Mi principal motor es su bienestar, su tranquilidad y comodidad, él es tan buen niño que mi deseo es que crezca con una buena salud mental y estabilidad necesaria para ser un buen ciudadano y un gran hombre.

Ya veremos cómo nos va y seguramente tendremos buenas noticias en cuando vuelva a contarle algo sobre César.

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English

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How César handled the changes we had in our home

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Hello Hello

Seriously wondering how the changes we are making at home affected César. I wouldn't be able to tell you exactly because I am not in his shoes. However, I will tell you what I have seen.

I have been home for almost a month, doing everything possible to be able to work from home and give my child better stability in the home that the two of us are creating together.

At first he seemed relaxed, the first time he came home while I was here, he came in with a smile on his face that I loved, of course, he brought a sweet that I had bought, it could have been his reaction to the snack that awaited him.

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Being at home has given him more emotional stability since he is in his environment, something that he wanted and needed, being at home. More than anything to play on his PC, which in the end I use it all day to work.

Although he is interested in that because it makes me generate more money and he can buy whatever he wants, but we know that there are limits, it's just that he feels when I tell him that I have just enough money to complete the purchase.

In that case it goes well, he has understood that no means no and then when there is, he has his benefit. This is how we have already experienced it and this is how we handle it as best we can, both of us, as a family in a country in crisis.

If I tell him that everything is rosy, perhaps he will grow up in a totally different world than the one I painted for him, so in that way I educate him about economics and resource management.

Going back to your reactions as an autistic child who is having radical changes in his life, not bad, just different. There came a time when I saw him anxious, I don't know if it was because he wanted something specific, or if it affected him to be in an uncertain situation.

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It affects me a lot, it affects him too, he is as anxious as I am, we want things to turn out well for us quickly instead of waiting and being patient, something that I must work on. Patience in both.

My main driving force is his well-being, his tranquility and comfort, he is such a good child that my wish is for him to grow up with good mental health and stability necessary to be a good citizen and a great man.

We'll see how it goes and we'll surely have good news when I tell you something about Caesar again.