Hola Hola

Hay momentos en nuestras vidas, o mejor dicho, en mi vida, donde no siento fuerza o energía para ocuparme de ciertas cosas, como por ejemplo ser la mejor mamá.

Estando en vacaciones y pasando ciertas situaciones en casa, he abandonado otras cosas, como por ejemplo darle disciplina a mi hijo, como orden en el desorden de nuestra vida actual.

He dejado a César en total abandono, y no abandono del todo, no se confundan, el tema es que no lo he llevado a sus actividades extracurriculares como debería ser.

Desde mayo ha asistido muy poco a karate y lo que van de vacaciones tampoco, además de darle vacaciones a él, me di vacaciones y menos cosas en las que lidiar.

El tema de la gasolina y rodar un carro que no tienes como mantener en este momento, han sido cruciales en el día a día, pensar en gastar, me da terror.

Estar en casa ha sido el mejor refugio, por lo que nos hemos quedado más en casa y se sale lo más que se pueda. Solo que en ese proceso también se abandonan cosas como: Bañarse.

Me ha costado hacer que César se bañe, tenga rutinas de higiene y orden en su entorno, creo que exagero, pero si, me parece que en vez de hacerse en automático, me ha costado hacerle seguimiento.

Unas de las herramientas que he usado, son pegarle papeles en la pared donde le doy instrucciones de lo que debe hacer, sus horarios y aseo, algo puntual que se debe cumplir diario.

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Opte por ponerles rayas de color azul y rojo, azul si cumplió, rojo si no cumplió. Así vamos. Poco a poco.

También abandone eso de hacerle seguimiento, aunque si ha hecho sus cosas, siempre debo recordarle el aseo personal y de su entorno. Aunque creo que es algo que lidiamos muchas mamás.

En fin, tengo remordimiento por no estar pendiente de todos los detalles, no me considero una mala madre, porque sé que mi hijo está bien, el problema es la disciplina y me lleno la mente con cosas como: Está de vacaciones, se merece descansar.

Para todo tiene su tiempo, además que como no respiramos para no gastar, mejor es estar en casa, que en la calle sin poder disfrutar.

Saludos.

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English

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My mothering ability has dropped

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Hello Hello

There are times in our lives, or rather, in my life, where I don't feel the strength or energy to take care of certain things, such as being the best mom.

Being on vacation and going through certain situations at home, I have abandoned other things, such as giving discipline to my son, as order in the disorder of our current life.

I have left César completely abandoned, and not completely abandoned, make no mistake, the issue is that I have not taken him to his extracurricular activities as he should be.

Since May he has attended karate very little and neither has he been on vacation. In addition to giving him vacations, I gave myself vacations and fewer things to deal with.

The issue of gasoline and driving a car that you have no way of maintaining at the moment, have been crucial in my day to day life, thinking about spending it terrifies me.

Being at home has been the best refuge, so we have stayed at home more and go out as much as possible. Only in this process things like: Bathing are also abandoned.

It has been difficult for me to get César to bathe, have hygiene routines and order in his environment, I think I am exaggerating, but yes, it seems to me that instead of doing it automatically, it has been difficult for me to follow up.

One of the tools I have used is to stick papers on the wall where I give him instructions on what he should do, his schedules and cleanliness, something specific that must be done daily.

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Choose to put blue and red stripes on them, blue if you complied, red if you didn't. So we go. Little by little.

I also stopped following up on him, although if he has done his own things, I must always remind him of personal hygiene and his surroundings. Although I think it's something that many moms deal with.

Anyway, I feel remorse for not being aware of all the details, I don't consider myself a bad mother, because I know that my son is fine, the problem is discipline and I fill my mind with things like: He's on vacation, he deserves to rest.

There is time for everything, and since we don't breathe so as not to waste, it is better to be at home than on the street without being able to enjoy.

Greetings.