Becoming a father has brought a great meaningful changes to my life from being just an adult to a more responsible father and person. I often thought more about just only myself, my wife and things that make me happy at that time before the arrival of our first kid. But being a father and in fatherhood category changed totally because it was not just only me anymore but about my wife and our little infant life that depends on me for support, affection and guidance.
Being a father really changed my perspective regards my thinking and other things and sense of responsibility was the first major change I realized. Since then, I have to think about my family before making any decisions any action I took have impact on my family. Things I used to neglect, like setting goals, planning my finances, providing food and shelters, paying bills and most importantly managing my time has now became paramount as those things have became my duties and mission that I must always accomplished.
The fatherhood stage has changed my thinking like I said earlier and I now see life in a more holistic view. Being a father has let me realized that success is not just a personal achievement but also about setting up a strong foundation for my family. Fatherhood has made me to be more disciplined, focused and patient. I have became someone who don't waste energy on things trivial things but instead I direct my notions into stability, growth and building a promising future for my family and loved ones.
I now value my family above everything since they are my priority which is more clearer because the happiness of my family is also my happiness and most importantly my family well-being come first before my personal needs. And even in difficult moments, I realized that I must always give my all to accomplish my goals because others depends on me and that's more of the reason I can't give up.
Before I enter into fatherhood stage, I'm not emotionally stronger but being a father has made me to. I face challenges with tenacity since I want to laid a good foundation for my kids. However, it has melted my heart and educate me about love in it's truest form.
Lastly, being a father has really shaped me into a more thoughtful person, attentive and more responsible and altered what I live for and my thinking as well because my greatest motivation is now my famiy and I compete everyday to be a better person but not just fir me only but for my wife, kids and my family.
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