My experience as a young mum hasn't been easy, just like they'll say (you're not the only one who has been through child bearing ), but permit me to say everybody's experience is special and different trust me.
I was 23 years old when I got married to my husband, I was deeply in love with him, and I thought to myself, if I could be his girlfriend why not his wife, so I opted in . Shortly after I became pregnant and gave birth to my daughter the following year.
I was a teacher in a primary school before I got married, so when I finished with the marriage rights and occasion I went back to my job, but when I gave birth to my baby , I was confused, I never knew how to merge my job and family. So I had to quit my job and stay at home without a dime of my own . I had to stay at home so I could look after our baby while my husband worked to provide for us .
So a year after I gave birth and my daughter has started walking, I had to look for a job in another school, I worked for just a month only to find out I was pregnant again OMG , I was perplexed, but I had to move on, so I hustled again with the pregnancy and my small baby for nine months again, and after giving birth I became jobless for the second time.
So Whats my story is about, it entails a lot to take care of children, I was overwhelmed especially due to the fact that I haven't really had the experience before. I went through pains I couldn't explain, I couldn't sleep anymore, it was as though my life was taken away from me , I had to take my baby everywhere even to the toilet sometimes.
But I grew, I studied, and I worked hard. I might not have a job, but I have my Jewels, they're my peace today, they give me joy in my sad moments, and they make me glad I went through that pain, because they've changed my world, they've helped me grow and they've taught me what motherhood is, and I'm grateful. Having children teaches you tolerance, patience,unconditional love and all. Now I'm 27 and I thought to myself, there's nothing that'll prepare you for these miracles, I'm glad to have them.
