I remember giving birth to kevwe, it was overwhelming tho, but she was a big baby, her weight on delivery was 3.7kg and she grew at that pace, she ate heavily and grew so big, to the extent that when i take her out people admired her size, and it was so hard for the to take her out because of her weight.
While i was pregnant,my land lady would warn me about how i eat , she'd tell me if i ate too much it'd be difficult for me to push on my delivery date , but i never listened, i made sure i ate each and every craving i had back then and the repacusion was brutal, judging from the size of the baby.
And this is why children's milestones are basic markers of development, these children grow physically ,from infancy, to toddlerhood, to preschool age, they learn languages and how to communicate, they build relationships with family and friends, they'll even use their instinct to know what time it is.
Like my daughter when she was 2 years old she knew when i was late to come pick her up from school, so immediately i got there so late she'd start crying and yelling at me.
So back to our story, so i learnt a lot from my first pregnancy and i applied it to my second pregnancy.
I didn't eat anyhow, i tried to eat healthy, and boom fejiros weight was lesser than kevwes weight and i had the most fast and easy delivery .the experience during the postnatal period was equally different. She was easy to carry about, she ate less than kevwe did , she didn't grow as fat as kevwe did .
And I've also observed that they grew with two different characters, kevwe is a calm baby girl, she's understanding,she has been that way ever since she was a baby up until now , while fejiro is loud,when she wants to eat she'll cry ,when she's sleepy she'll cry ,she doesn't let me do my chores, nor even sleep at night.
So every child's milestones are different, if someone else's child has grown eight teeth at one year old and your baby still has just 4 teeth, please don't panic, children grow differently.