Una de las cosas con las que me ha tocado lidiar en esta etapa de mamá, es que muchas personas se sienten con la confianza para acercarse y tocar a mi bebé, sin ni conocernos.
No sé si eso sea normal acá en Colombia, pero, realmente no creo que sea lo correcto, pienso que si te parece lindo un bebé y quieres comentarlo debes respetar el espacio tanto de mamá como del bebé, puedes demostrar tu afecto sin necesidad de tocarle su cara, sus manitas o piernas.
A mi bebé no le gustan estas actitudes, y ya en varias ocasiones ha llorado desconsoladamente cuando esto sucede, obviamente son personas ajenas a su entorno que pretenden tocarle y hablarle muy de Serca, no sé si estoy equivocada pero para mí es importante el espacio personal.
Ellos también son personas que se asustan e incomodan, por ser niños no quiere decir que jugarán con cualquiera o que a todos les sonrreiran, al principio me sentía frustrada con esta situación debo admitir.
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Nos ha tocado con delicadeza decir las cosas, porque a veces dejamos que sucedan las cosas solo por pena, obviamente el bebé debe socializar pero como digo, respetando su espacio.
INGLÉS
One of the things I have had to deal with during this stage of being a mother is that many people feel comfortable approaching and touching my baby, without even knowing us.
I don't know if that's normal here in Colombia, but I really don't think it's right. I think that if you think a baby is cute and you want to comment on it, you should respect the space of both the mother and the baby. You can show your affection without touching their face, hands or legs.
My baby does not like these attitudes, and on several occasions he has cried inconsolably when this happens, obviously they are people outside his environment who try to touch him and I speak very much about Serca, I don't know if I'm wrong but personal space is important to me.
They are also people who get scared and uncomfortable, being children does not mean that they will play with anyone or that they will smile at everyone, at first I felt frustrated with this situation I must Adm
We have had to say things delicately, because sometimes we let things happen just out of pity. Obviously, the baby must socialize, but as I say, respecting his space.