Anger is the power of man. If you understand the science of anger, you can become a powerful and influential person. In fact, we don't get angry, we do it intentionally. Have you ever noticed that if you had a job? If so, have you been angry in front of your boss? What is the reason? Just think! The reason is that you know that your boss can harm you. He can transfer you, stop your increment, even he can suspend or dismiss you from job.We are very sensible, we always turn our anger on those who are weaker than ourselves. When we know that this person cannot harm us, we get angry with him. We do not get angry with the powerful because we know that it can harm us.
If you learnt that how to chanalise anger in a positive way then you are the luckiest person of the world.Anger is basically energy.If you are a sensitive type of peraon and gets angry very quickly then you can make this shortcoming your merit.You should not worry about anger beacause if you chanalise it in a proper way then you may progress a lot in every field of life.If you get hyper very quickly then you are not an ordinary human being,you are very special human being.You are different from many others.
If you want to make anger your weapon, then one thing you should keep in mind is that you have to use anger in a positive direction.
Let me tell you how to use the energy like anger in the right direction. You have to challenge yourself at every point of life. For example, if you have got any bad habit and you are not able to get rid of it, then you have to be angry with yourself. You have to challenge yourself that I will give up this bad habit after today. If you are a smoker and want to give it up, first of all stop holding the cigarette. Talk to yourself again and again that will quit this bad habit. This formula has been tested on myself, if you start taking out anger on yourself and start taking account of yourself, you will move towards improvement day by day.
Here I will share with you a story from my past. I left my studies after doing intermediate. One day I was sitting with a friend. He told me that I am doing B.A (Bachelor) and English subject is very difficult in B.A. I told him that, man, if you work hard, there is nothing difficult.He said no it's very difficult but still I will pass. He mocked me and said you should never even think about passing it. Here I felt bad about it and I bet him. I said that I will pass the English subject of B.A and get more marks than you. He made fun of me and said you can't do it. I said time will tell.
Both of us took the bachelor exam and surprisingly I cleared the B.A exam and got more marks than my friend.
I responded to my friend's taunt by chanalising my anger. I took out all the anger on myself. Worked hard in studies and succeeded.
I learnt a lesson from it that if you use your anger to achieve your goal, it becomes your weapon.
Anger will remain with you.Its your energy. You cannot get rid of it.
You can manage i by giving it direction.You can chanalise it in a positive way.
I wrote this post in my national language urdu and then translate it in english while using translator.