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For some time now, I was having a desire to share my thoughts and feelings about various subjects related to self improvement. After a quick search I found this community of Self Improvement. I am here to learn from the community and share some humble thoughts. I would like to start with being positive, but before diving into my ideas about being positive, let me talk briefly about my motivation to write on the broad topic of self improvement.
I came to understand that, improving myself may also mean reconstructing my inner structure. And I find it a bit confusing and difficult. Please do not think that I find myself a complicated person, it is more about lacking a reference point to start with. Whenever I come across an idea that may improve me, I am having a problem to plant that idea on my mind. My personality will nourish it, or reject? Since my being, also contains all the leftovers from the days I lived up until now, how can I add the new bit while not decomposing all the rest, or how can I calm down my statue for not to create a prejudice. It is like doing an injection to your body without having the official or approved medication to heal an undiagnosed but anticipated illness.
Why positivity?
My life is the combination of the days I lived. Thats the analytical reasoning I find useful to start with. And what remains after each day is the very base that gradually grows and creates a stand for whole my personality leans on. If I can lay down a good layer then the day is well accomplished.
Being positive, is a great tool if I want to add a solid and a good quality day to my life. If I choose to employ a positive attitude, I believe that I will stay open to any opportunities that may arrise and I can avoid my innerself to have unnecesary stir due to any outside effect.
On the other hand being positive is not easy for me, that is because I tend to be skeptical. I dont easily accept things if I didnt experience it before and be sure to some degree about the outcomes. I think this is not being negative, but more like feeling insecure.
Nowadays, whenever I feel that I am not approaching in positive manner or I am at the edge of falling into undecissiveness, I am applying the following short affirmations:
- Nobody but me is responsible for how I feel or what I feel. And I have the abililty to alter the nuances of my my feelings.
- There is me being aware of, and in between the outside world and my innerworld. I am the gate keeper to welcome in any, and say goodbye to whichever I wish.
- If I needed, I am willing to change my expectation, attitude and communicaton.
I believe being positive is one step closer to master my own life.
Having said that, being skeptic is not a bad thing, thats how I respond, instead I need to be aware of it and learn to use it as a lever.
All the best...
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