The "why" behind many getting into a relationship is to enjoy intimacy,have a companion, a friend, an helper and most importantly someone that can take off the burden of stress we pulled in for the day whenever we are with them.
I don't believe in Love, do you?
But I believe in responsibility and commitment. I think the two merged together can as well be called Love right?
Because what else keeps you with that opposite sex for as long as God knows if not because you've chosen to pick up the responsibility of one another and chosen to stay commited.
Now the question is simple. How good is a Good relationship?
Don't be surprised, I feel every good relationship also comes with it's burden. Do you agree with me?
You could have a nagging lady or a nagging guy.
You could have a less matured guy or lady.
You could have to deal with lies and as well some emotional trauma. And a lot more...
But all the same, the word still applies "Responsibility + Commitment".
I think without these, there's no spice to the food ! You'll get tired.
I was listening to a speaker speak about his marriage lifestyle and he made a statement that is worth questioning.
He said " People speak of every relationship to be an avenue where you discover the full attitude of your spouse - the things you know about before and the ones you're not familiar with all get revealed. So, you're meant to fight at some point, complain and as well make up that's where Commitment and responsibility comes in right?
But the speaker said and I quote "Why should there be fight in a relationship? I feel everyone can disagree to agree but there's no need to fight, it's love and it's meant to be enjoyed and not at all times be on your heels explaining things".
Do you agree?
I think probably we all have our separate definition of what fighting is in a relationship. Maybe "disagree to agree" is just another word to mean fight.
I feel every good relationship stays good when the involving parties are willing and able to take up the responsibility and commitment of one another.
The flaws are there...
It's a good relationship when responsibility and commitment helps to shape both party to learn to adapt to the things that can't be changed and as well readjust to change what needs to be changed.
Do you agree with me?
Maybe or maybe not ! Let me hear your thoughts. What do you think, "how good is a good relationship?"
I will love to hear from you 🥰 I should conclude my content tomorrow 🌻🌹