When a woman loves a man so much that she doesn't care how the family views her, and likewise the man, in this part of Africa, the parents of either the man or the woman might decide to hate the man or the woman without any reason. They will do all they can just to make sure that the marriage doesn't work, but in some cases, the couple will ignore both parents and get married.
That's exactly what happened at the movie Home sweet war The man and woman love themselves so much but the family of the man disliked the woman because they sensed that the woman was far older than the man, but the man was looking at the qualities the woman had not her age so he has made his decision to marry her.
They decided to get married in the absence of both families, at first the woman wasn't comfortable with the decision but the man promised to protect her and love her no matter what happens.
Will you go ahead and get married in the absence of your family members?
Finally, they are married and the man's family got to hear, they were very upset about the fact that their brother didn't listen to them, the sister and the mother swore with their lives that would end the marriage.
The man's sister moved in with this new couple, allowing her was a big mistake on the part of the newly married couple but the wife thought she would win them over with her good conduct but unfortunately that was a dream that will never come through.
The house became a battle ground, the new wife tried all she could to win the husband family but no way, the husband sister kept tormenting, she kept doing all sorts of evil just to make sure the her brother hates the wife and eventually send her away, but that didn't work instead their love became more stronger.
The whole home war thing added to the pressure the man was facing at work and he didn't know what to do again, one day he couldn't hold it again but screamed to his wife and that was the first time the wife had him talk to her in such tone.
Drastic change
One faithful day the police came to the house and picked up this man, and the sister couldn't do anything to help so she kept crying, little did she know that the old woman she hates so much has lots of connections.
The wife called her fathers friend and she quickly went to the bank and settled the bill that worth thousands of dollars and brought her husband man while the sister and the mother where still running around but they can't do anything.
That incident changed everything, the sister came and apologized to her brothers wife and they reconciled.
lessons
It is very important not to judge someone by their appearance , it's very important to take your time to study them and know who they are on the inside before concluding.