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¿Que taaaaaaal? Espero estén de maravilla, hoy quise unirme y participar en esta iniciativa tan interesante que nos presenta @Glowshine, realmente es la oportunidad perfecta para hablar de algunas actitudes cero sanas y MUY destructivas de parte de estos personajes de la televisión.
Algunas veces idealizamos a parejas sin pararnos a pensar si está todo bien, todo correcto con ellos. Pues algunos programas son tan entretenidos ¿A quien no le gusta el drama?
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How soooooo great? I hope you are doing great, today I wanted to join and participate in this very interesting initiative presented by @Glowshine, it really is the perfect opportunity to talk about some unhealthy and VERY destructive attitudes of these TV characters.
Sometimes we idealize couples without stopping to think if it's all good, all right with them. Well, some shows are so entertaining, who doesn't like drama?
Primero ¿Que es una pareja tóxica? son aquellas personas que no debieron conocerse.. Ah no, así no era. Ahora en serio: Las relaciones tóxicas son destructivas, es decir que alguno o ambos miembros no son capaces de dejar de causarse daño, no es una relación sana cuándo existe el control o el desinterés excesivo.
First of all, what is a toxic couple? They are people who should never have met. Ah no, it wasn't like that. Now seriously: Toxic relationships are destructive, meaning that one or both partners are unable to stop hurting each other, it is not a healthy relationship when there is excessive control or disinterest.
1.EUPHORIA: Nate & Maddy
Está parejita es aparentemente ICONIC, se conocieron en la secundaria y mantienen una relación destructiva. Son más tóxicos que la palabra, desde un inicio comenzamos mal con Maddy preguntandole a Kat si creía que sus "areola" estuvieran mal, por lo que está le responde que "están bien", y Maddy le dice que Nate la hace sentir mal consigo misma... Tenemos también a Nate dudando de su sexualidad.
Aunque estos tuvieron buenos inicios al conocerse, está relación de volvió cada vez más turbia. Por un lado tenemos a Maddy que ve en Nate su salvación de vivir una vida "sencilla" e igual a la de su madre con su padre alcohólico. Trata de complacer a Nate en todo de modo que este le compra cosas costosas, sin embargo Maddy se cuesta con otros hombres cuando dan pausa o descanso a su relación, mientras que Nate se vuelven una furia llena de celos incontrolables hasta el punto de violentar, amenazar y manipular.
This couple is apparently ICONIC, they met in high school and have a destructive relationship. They are more toxic than the word, from the start we get off to a bad start with Maddy asking Kat if she thought her "areolae" were wrong, to which she replies that "they're fine", and Maddy tells her that Nate makes her feel bad about herself.... We also have Nate doubting his sexuality.
Although they had good beginnings when they met, this relationship became increasingly murky. On one side we have Maddy who sees in Nate her salvation to live a "simple" life just like her mother with her alcoholic father. She tries to please Nate in everything so that he buys her expensive things, however Maddy costs herself with other men when they give pause or rest to their relationship, while Nate becomes a rage full of uncontrollable jealousy to the point of violence, threats and manipulation.
A pesar de todo esto Nate se daba cuenta que aún la quería y volvían a estar juntos como si nada a pesar del daño mutuo que se hacen se "aman" y creen que son ellos contra el mundo. Ambos con dependencia emocional, una relación llena de violencia, infidelidades, mentiras, y sobre todo costumbre.
Despite all this Nate realized that he still loved her and they got back together as if nothing happened despite the mutual damage they do to each other, they "love" each other and believe it is them against the world. Both with emotional dependency, a relationship full of violence, infidelity, lies, and above all habit.
2. YOU: Joe & Beck
Ya todos sabemos que Joe es un psicópata, Pero que hay de Beck ¿De verdad nunca se dió cuenta de nada de lo que hacía Joe? bueno, claro que se dió cuenta pero muy tarde. El amor te ciega pero ¿EN SERIO BECK? ¿EN SERIO?
It all starts with Joe developing an unhealthy obsession with Guinevere Beck after he sees her walk into the bookstore where she works. He starts following her around, keeping tabs on her and getting to know her schedule, until he finally plans a "chance encounter" and they end up meeting.
We all know Joe is a psychopath, but what about Beck? Did she really never notice anything Joe was doing? Well, of course she noticed, but it was too late. Love blinds you but REALLY BECK? REALLY?
Joe la manipulaba a su antojo, desde influir en sus acciones como salidas con amigas o su forma de vestir, la vigila SI, INCLUSO DESPUES DE ESTAR JUNTOS. Le revisa el celular y está pendiente de su ubicación todo el tiempo mediante redes sociales. Se pone celoso de su mejor amiga... ¿AMOR U OBSECION?
Si si sí, es obseción. Tengo media hora pensando que tuvo de bueno está pareja y no, no sé me ocurre nada. Porque incluso Beck no era sincera. La pareja de esta serie.. digo de esta primera temporada, realmente carece de algo positivo. Es ese Nunca debieron de estar juntos.
Joe manipulated her as he pleased, from influencing her actions like going out with friends or the way she dresses, he watches her YES, EVEN AFTER THEY ARE TOGETHER. He checks her cell phone and keeps an eye on her location all the time through social networks. He gets jealous of her best friend? LOVE OR OBSESSION?
Yes yes yes, it's obsession. I have half an hour thinking what was good about this couple and no, I can't think of anything. Because even Beck wasn't sincere. The couple of this series... I mean of this first season, really lacks something positive. It's that they should never have been together.
3. 300 DNI: Laura & Massimo
Laura es secuestrada por Massimo y esté le confiesa que su plan es tenerla cautiva por 365 días con el fin de que ella se enamore de él. Suponiendo que el amor es así de voluntario y voluble. Inicialmente vemos a una Laura que que trata de escapar y de carácter fuerte, pero luego... Luego no se que pasa🤣
I'll take the opportunity to throw hate at this couple, Laura tired of trying to improve her monotonous marriage and Massimo is a mobster who becomes obsessed with her after he first sees her. So much so that he has a portrait of her in his foyer without even knowing her... Turbio no?
Laura is kidnapped by Massimo and he confesses to her that his plan is to hold her captive for 365 days so that she will fall in love with him. Assuming that love is that voluntary and fickle. Initially we see a Laura who tries to escape and has a strong character, but then.... Then I don't know what happens🤣.
Termina perdidamente enamorada del hombre que la mantiene encerrada contra su voluntad, así como el Síndrome de Estocolmo. Este romance es vacío más allá de lo sexual, pues no vemos a la pareja teníendo momentos para conocerse como personas.
Massimo es abusivo, violento y manipulador, una persona ególatra acostumbrada a obtener todo lo que quiere, ¿que más enfermizo que eso?
She ends up madly in love with the man who keeps her locked up against her will, just like Stockholm Syndrome. This romance is empty beyond the sexual, as we don't see the couple having moments to get to know each other as people.
Massimo is abusive, violent and manipulative, an egomaniacal person used to getting everything he wants, what could be more unhealthy than that?
Realmente este tema me deja muy pensativa pues pocas veces nos paramos a pensar si algún comportamiento o actitud está mal más allá de lo considerado sano. Así que amigos muy alertas que algún Joe podría estar vigilandolos...
Hasta pronto, besos 💋💋💋
ah, casi olvido invitar a mi linda amiga 
Really this topic leaves me very thoughtful because we rarely stop to think if any behavior or attitude is wrong beyond what is considered healthy. So friends very alert that some Joe might be watching you...
See you soon, kisses 💋💋💋
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