Hace poco vi esta serie pero no sabía el cómo plasmar lo que había visto y es que es una serie bastante fuerte, en ella vemos la historia real que vivo Richard Gadd el mismo hace su papel pero en la serie le dan el nombre de Donny. El sufre meses de fuerte acoso por quien en la serie nos presentan como Martha una señora que llega al restaurante donde Donny Servia y por una obra de caridad con alguien triste, se termina obsesionando perdidamente de él, iba todos los dias a verlo, hablar con él y tomar su “bebida de cortesía” que le servía Donny.
A él no le molesta al principio, ya que hasta se siente alagado, pero siempre intenta mantener la distancia, pero Martha no, busca la manera de comunicarse con el, de saber más de él y poco a poco esté la quiere alejar pero ya no puede, la es tarde, ella está obsesionada con el, empieza a manipular toda la situación para que todo lo favorezca y es que es una experta acosadora, no era la primera vez que lo hacía, luego de algunos meses de esa situación decide demandarla y es aquí el punto de quiebre más grande para Donny.
Y es que Donny era un comediante fracasado, alguien sin autoestima, quien intentó dar todo lo posible por cumplir sus sueños, poniéndose en lugares sumamente riesgosos, no solo sufrió acoso de Martha, sino que desde antes ya había sufrido de abusos, era una persona destruida y por un momento se sintió “atraído” de la obsesión de Martha el y sumamente culpable por “darle paso” a ella para que le hiciera todo lo que le hizo.
La culpabilidad hacía la victimaria siempre está, es decir, “porque no hablaste antes?” “Como permitiste eso?” “La estás demandando hasta ahorita?”, entre muchas barreras que le ponen a las victimas, para librar a los victimarios, esto justamente es lo que más ahoga a la persona y evita que hable, Donny se sintió responsable de todo lo que le pasó, del abuso por ir a drogarse con un desconocido y del acoso de Martha por simplemente ser amable, es hasta el final de la serie que siento yo, se da cuenta que no fue su culpa, que ese acto de bondad cualquiera de buen corazón lo tendría con quien lo necesite.
Nunca es tu culpa los abuses que ejercen sobre ti, tú estás viviendo de la forma que sabes y que crees lo mejor, eliges confiar, eliges ser amable, eso no te hace culpable de nada y es la cruda realidad que nos muestra esta serie, si no la han visto, tómense el tiempo pero ojo, no es para todo el mundo, tiene sus momentos que te podrán causar un poco de “repulsión”.
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I recently saw this series but I didn't know how to capture what I had seen and it is a pretty strong series, in it we see the real story that I live Richard Gadd he himself plays his role but in the series they give him the name of Donny. He suffers months of strong harassment by someone who in the series is presented to us as Martha, a lady who arrives at the restaurant where Donny Servia and for a charity work with someone sad, ends up becoming madly obsessed with him, she went to him every day. see him, talk to him and drink his “complimentary drink” that Donny served him.
It doesn't bother him at first, since he even feels flattered, but he always tries to keep his distance, but not Martha, she looks for a way to communicate with him, to know more about him and little by little he wants to push her away but he doesn't anymore. maybe, it's late, she is obsessed with him, she starts to manipulate the whole situation so that everything favors him and she is an expert stalker, it wasn't the first time she did it, after a few months of that situation he decides to sue her and This is the biggest breaking point for Donny.
And Donny was a failed comedian, someone with no self-esteem, who tried to do everything possible to fulfill his dreams, putting himself in extremely risky places, not only did he suffer harassment from Martha, but he had already suffered abuse before, he was a person destroyed and for a moment he felt “attracted” to Martha's obsession and extremely guilty for “giving way” to her to do everything she did to him.
The guilt towards the victimizer is always there, that is, “why didn't you speak up sooner?” “How did you allow that?” “Are you suing her until now?”, among many barriers that they put on the victims, to free the perpetrators, this is precisely what most suffocates the person and prevents them from speaking, Donny felt responsible for everything that happened to him. , of the abuse for going to get high with a stranger and of Martha's harassment for simply being kind, it is not until the end of the series that I feel, she realizes that it was not her fault, that that act of kindness was done by anyone with a good heart. I would have with whoever needs it.
It is never your fault for the abuse they exert on you, you are living the way you know and believe is best, you choose to trust, you choose to be kind, that does not make you guilty of anything and it is the harsh reality that this series shows us, If you haven't seen it, take your time but be careful, it is not for everyone, it has its moments that may cause you a little "repulsion".
