Watching this American TV series named "Sistas" from well known and widely respected movie producer, Tyler Perry, I wondered how contemporary, civil and modern, our society are becoming. Love and Relationship are becoming endangered emotional qualities that should be protected and conserved by all world's organizations for the continuity of humanity and existence. This TV series really touches me in many ways. Let me help you with them.
However, there is important aspect of humanity being focused majorly on the series. Firstly, Friendship can be twisted but should stand forever. The four sisters, although not biological met while they were in high school but keep their friendship "sisters circle" tight throughout the series. They are ready for anyone in need and needed support provided.
One aspect of humanity reveals is the infallible nature of humans. We can get depressed easily and misjudged others. But our friendship should be ready at all times to help us. Sisters usually have their dinner or visits on others, when any problem arises, they summons each other and think way forward. Best tactics of solving problems.
This TV series reminds me of the common adage that said "Problem shared is half solved". Who is the best person to help us? If not, our friends who are ready to listen and know us very well. Genuinely, they wanted to help us and can get into problems while doing so. For example, Sabrina is on the brink of losing her banking job because of the help rendered to Andrea of receiving a huge cash without protocols. Rather than becoming more sad, she focuses on how her friend will be free from wrong accusations and betrayal of her boss.
Another brighter aspect of humanity that was showcased is the work relationship. Everyone should be valued at our workplace. Open and genuine concern can draw others to us and more benefits can be derived. For example, Pam can be nosy but many accounts, she have helped Keren. Whenever we cherished our colleagues at work, we will have good friends and more benefits.
Our relationship can be twisted or on the venge of collapse but we can build it up together. For example, Keren and Zac have many challenges, starting from Zac's cheating, fake pregnancy, visionless and poor. But Keren still faithful and love him so much. It was not easy at all and she is very abusive, Zac is really to improve and supportive. This fact is exactly what I needed as I am starting my new family and have no reasonable financial backbone to support my wife.
In any relationship circle, whether our family or friends. Let's appreciate the good side of anyone, no matter their shortcomings and flaws. For example, Danni can be talkative and hot tempered, but she is real and helpful. Although Zac contributes barely for their house rent. She accommodated him out of pity and ever messed up her friendship with others.
We should learn how to accept other on who they are, not according to what we want them to be. There's already enough hate in the world, why will we add to it but focusing what others want to be and who they are. I even learned not to stereotype or misjudged others by what we observe or think. Also, before I tell others, my worries. I should be careful and think well on their views and suggestions because it can complicate the whole issue. Remember the suggestions of Maurice on the Sabrina's view of Calvin. Peaceful discussion with the person can clear my doubt and give peace a chance.
Finally
Although I just finished all the episodes of the season one, I have been motivated and inspired to be a better me. Ready to assist my wife, become better friend and never misjudged anyone's on their personal choices. Learn to work hard, respect my colleagues and cherish my friends forever.