I really don't know why most males feel they need to have a specific pattern of spending whenever they get money, you know, it has always been an attitude people get to talk about, it is so common that once a young guy makes money, the next thing he wants to do is to spend money on drinks, parties, and ladies.
Permit me to share my friend's story, she was once in a relationship with a young man from a humble background, he literally had nothing when she meet him, but he was hard working and she believed so much in him, they went through the rough days together and all that, most of our friends always advised her to move on with the financially stable young men that were coming for her at the time, but she insisted that she has a strong feeling for this man and she wouldn't play with it for any reason.
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Anyways, prayers got answered and he became really financially comfortable, my friend was so happy and particularly I was happy for her, finally, she will be able to enjoy the things of life too because she had sacrificed so many things in the name of love, but oh, we were wrong as this young man had other plans. We didn't see it coming at first, but he gradually began to drift away, my friend noticed and we told her she was just being paranoid, or maybe she was getting insecure because he now had to work extra hours and stay out late. At first, she didn't argue with us, but then it got to a point when we began to notice that this is beyond being devoted to work, it was a lot more. He started to club and keep late at night, the most annoying part for me was, the same ladies who laughed at my friend for staying with a broke guy were the ones he started spending money on, I mean on a normal day, these ladies would not even greet him when they walk past him, but since he has money, they became so close.
My friend was beyond heartbroken, he became what we call a BALLER, on occasions when she tried to call his attention to the change of attitude, he reminds her that he is a grown man and he can make decisions for himself and about stand with him through difficult moments, he never begged her for it. It was this particular statement that made my friend give up on the relationship completely and never look back. That event has made her make up her mind never to settle for a man who is just trying to build, now she is so focused on herself that people say she works as hard as a man. But my question is, why does the male gender always see the flow of money as an opportunity to act as the biggest boys of the town, spend on ladies who would never even consider them on a normal day? Is there a technique to this effect?